Why are ladies attracted to older guys? What is the biggest age differential you would accept?

Question

Why is bigger better?

Answer 1

Mature guys have that extra cop on that sometimes men our own age just dont have yet - experience comes with age or so they say!
Older men are normally more established and secure in life anyway so they're a bit more reliable and "safe".
Biggest age differential for me - being 29, I think the oldest Id go would be about 37

Answer 2

so many questions! how did we get from older guys to bigger being better?
I suppose ladies prefer older men because the are stable & can offer more than struggling young dudes. I don't know any studly young men with any money to their names, most don't have homes or the chance to get one, etc. Older men have made their way, are usually established in a career, own a home, etc.
Very appealing to women who are into "things".
I tried seeing someone 10 years or so older than me - it was just too great a lapse - he seemed "old" & was not appealing. I don't look or act my age, people usually place me 10 years or more younger than I am - so going out with an "old" man isn't for me.
Bigger is better than small - yes. Why? I'll have to tell you about it in person, some time.

Answer 3

Ok, I am an expert on this, cause i am 23 and my boyfriend is 43.
I have been with men of my own age and had nothing but hassle. Been beaten up and treated like dirt in general. I find men my own age just wanna get their kicks and leave before u wake up in the mornin, thats not what i want, i have more respect for myself. My current boyfriend and i have been together for two yrs now and never had an argument (dissagreemnts yes) and never treated each other badly.
The older men have more respect for women, they know how to be a gentleman, which is what us women want. To be wined, dined, loved and cared for. And of course by his age he's got rid of the nasty habits of goin out to pull and get P***ed!
I think its this thing that women mature and learn more quickly than men do, as girls excell in school alot quicker than the boys do.
so thats my opinion, i may be wrong, but thats the reasons i'm with my boyfriend.

Answer 4

Women tend to be more emotionaly mature than their male peers and so tend to be attracted to older men who have reached an acceptable level.
Years ago the rule of thumb was for a gentleman to go out and have his education and his friends, establish himself in society and business and then take a bride of approximately half his age plus up to seven years (i.e if he was say 40 his bride would be between 20 & 27)he had the maturity and financial standing and she still had youth for bearing heirs.
I have accepted up to twenty years difference when I was much younger, but as life goes on, what is an acceptable gap becomes smaller and smaller. Seven years would be the max right now

Answer 5

ladies are attracted to older guys because older guys are matured in the way they think and handle a relationship or even a simple conversation. older men also know when they need to be attentive to a ladies needs.

ladies want someone who will treat them as ladies and at the same time care for them like they are a little girl.

that is why young men who know how to do these things and act matured for their age usually have a lot of girlfriends or admirers.

Answer 6

I've always been attracted to guys round about the same age as me but I recently met someone five years older than me whom I absolutely adore.

Turns out older guys are more mature, more responsible, have a better idea of where they're headed in life and have less of the insecurities younger guys do.

Answer 7

Ladies are attracted to older guys because of some factors -
(1) older guys are more experienced in relationship
(2) They always avoid making the same mistake that had cost them in a previous relationship.
(3) Ladies tends to be more mature than guys of their age, so dating older guys will regulate their level of maturity.
(4)Older guys tends to be more sensitive to ladies' needs and not wants

Bigger in 'AGE' is better because ladies in most cases cannot relate normally in relationship with their agemate guy because ladies's sense of maturity is always greater than guys of the same age.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

It's not nessasarily that bigger is better but when a guy is older he seems more mature, more experienced, and protective. Most of the time this is not true however. My ex bf was older and I found that I was better off with the guys younger than me.

Answer 10

My fella is 18 years older than me, im 42. He is kind, generous, thoughtful, caring, intelligent, witty, good lucking, wise, very loving and amazing in bed. Is that enough explanations as to why women are attracted to older men. They also appreciate what they have got more and dont put it at risk by playing around.