Did i mention hes my friends boyfriend for over a year!
She has beeen cheatin on him but i didnt thtink it was my place to tell him as my loyalties are to her.
I feel bad for him.She is a slut.i do have feelings for him but i may lose all my other friends aswel if i give in to them.
2006-09-28 02:43:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is your call
2006-09-28 02:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is tough. How long have you been friends with this girl? Sometimes friendships are way more important than a relationship. If you do get together with this guy who knows it may only last for a little while but would your girls forgive you? Would it be worth it? You have to do what you feel is the right thing to do.
2006-09-28 09:51:04 · answer #2 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who is he in love with? You or her? If it's her, do not act on your feelings for him and encourage her to come clean with him, for his sake. If it's you, he needs to be a man and break up with her and then give it some time. If at some later point it's possible and she's not in your life anymore, you guys could start a relationship. Unfortunately, you've gotten in a very difficult situation and there is no way to have your friend and date this guy too. You might also want to evaluate why you're friends with a girl you call a *****.
2006-09-28 10:14:51 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that he should keep seeing her if she's cheating on him. I think you should do what you feel if you think he is a good guy and you really like him you should go for it. If you best friend gets mad you can tell her that it shouldn't matter because she was cheating on him anyway and that she should just be single and date all the people she wants to but don't call any of them her boyfriend but yes i think you should give it a shot with this guy if you think he is really good and won't hurt you.
2006-09-28 09:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont tell him about the cheating thing, he will only kill te messenger!! Tell him that if he doesn't love her anymore he should break up with her.... Then secretly have a relationship with him for a month and then if u still like eachother, u should tell ur friends and they should realise how much he means to u or else they arent ure friends!!! But thats easier said then done!! the choice is ours!! GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-09-28 09:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in my opinion, its not your place to tell him. i believe you want to say something because you have some feelings for him and you want him. otherwise you wouldnt say a word to him, if you really feel concerned mention it to her and see how she takes it but you need to stay out of it because it will cost your friendship. its not right for you to call her names if she is your close friend, i would never call my bestfriend or even a close friend names behind her back. if it bothers you that much say something to her but not in a way that will put her down. and dont tell her half the story tell her that you have feelings for him, dont make it seem like you care about his wellbeing because you have admit that you have your own hidden agenda. if you tell him that she is cheating, it may backfire on you and bite you in the butt. what if he finds out later that you did it because you had feelings for him? you think hes going to have faith in you?
2006-09-28 09:59:13 · answer #6 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Morality.....when one is in position of high morals, one knows what to do in these types of situations...sometimes doing whats right comes with a price...my advice would be to tell him about whats going on but do not move in right away....let the dust settle and see where everyone is later....I do not envy the position you are in....good luck
2006-09-28 09:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by l00kstwice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe it wasnt meant to be and things happen for a reason. yall are feeling each other for special reasons. she cheated for a reason and u didnt tell for a reason. so i feel tell ur friend and see how she takes it ive been there before but it was the other way around his friend was cheating on me and we've been together goin on 2 years now. so i jus say its best to speak up.
2006-09-28 09:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by Shawty Luv 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its not your place to tell. Nor should you deal with him because he's your friend's boyfriend. You would defintely lose that friendship if you go there. Is he worth all that?
2006-09-28 09:48:58 · answer #9 · answered by B U Tiful 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If shes such a bad person, why are you friends with her? And you shouldnt get involved in their relationship even if shes cheating. Its not your place to get involved.
2006-09-28 09:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by Tina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend to tell him. It'll hurt him to hear it from someone. If she refuses to tell him maybe you should and if she hates you for it it's her problem because he deserves to know and she's a ***** for not telling him.
2006-09-28 09:48:47 · answer #11 · answered by Veronica K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋