is it one enough?...or once you discover that wild adventurous side of relationship you wanna keep trying banging other men...
2006-09-28 02:37:25 · 20 answers · asked by Nick Rios 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dirty, dirty
2006-09-28 02:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by Sexy_Bunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never have cheated on my dh, but I worked with couples where the man has cheated a few times and vice versa. They knows that if he does it again he's out! It takes two to cheat and two to tango as we say. Right now the couples I'm working with are discovering there wild side of marriage which is improving. Despite the fact that once a cheater is always a cheater and liar life with this person is difficult but couples can move on and start again. The trust has to rebuilt and the spark but the foundation and history as a couple will always be there. Your marriage can still work outm its finding out why she has cheated on you and how you can move on and work it out. Good luck, you seem angry and bitter speak to someone about this.
2006-09-28 02:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm listen if someone is married and do cheat and then feel this so called wild adventerous side and like it then they dont love their spouse in the first place ..
with my first hubby /boyfriend ..(never married ) the relationship went downhill fast and when we BOTH cheated dont know who did it first ,since the love was disinigrating then you have no conscience ..so now with my present husband i love him to the deepest of my soul and even when we have problems ( cuz every marriage does) i could not even imagine cheatin on him even when i just flirt with a cute guy thats says i am pretty at the store or somthin i feel bad ..so true love you wont feel that adventure and if you do for some reason cheat by drinking or whatever ..if you truly love the man or lady youll feel so freakin guilty you wont be feeling oh that was fun and adverterous to do it again !! once you feel like that (like its fun ) and you want to do ita again ,then your relationship has had so many problems that you shouldnt be together anyways ..
now thats when maturity steps in and you accept that its over and leave the person before cheatin on them !!
so true love is strong and if true love exist then guilt would derrive from cheatin not adventure!!
2006-09-28 02:44:37 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cheated on my husband about seven years ago in a sporadic rash of incidents. I only had intercourse with one of the men and oral gratification with 3 others, but I can honestly say I would NEVER NEVER do any of it again. I couldn't live with the guilt and told my husband everything....he forgave me and has never thrown up in my face over the last seven years. He LOVES me even after what I did and that is amazing to me. So, I would never do anything to jeopardize our relationship again.
2006-09-28 02:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by Airlantiss 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Never--i didnt marry till I found a guy I really loved and wanted. Stupid me!--thought that was the whole idea behind marriage.
2006-09-28 02:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by patlrussell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats cheating?
2006-09-28 02:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once
2006-09-28 02:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by Kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One is enough to relize what you have. if it was even worth it or was it an open eyed to see the kind of person your with.
2006-09-28 02:45:14 · answer #8 · answered by grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a boyfriend and I've cheated on him twice. Once with each guy. He doesn't know about it. I'd rther not tell him.
2006-09-28 02:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by kisme86 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope I don't think it is once you discovered that 'WILD SIDE" .
2006-09-28 02:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by blueblossom33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did it once and would never cheat again!! Worst mistake of my life.
2006-09-28 02:39:05 · answer #11 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋