2006-09-28 02:32:07 · 38 answers · asked by Smile 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To laugh in their face and tell them it was all a lie.
2006-09-28 02:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that the worst way is to tell everyone except the person you are breaking up with. That is exactly what happened to me. When a woman that I was dating suddendly decided that she didn't like me anymore, she stopped answering her phone, she stopped returning my calls and every time she would see me she would go the other way. When I would ask her what was going on or what was wrong she would claim that nothing had changed. Because we worked in different divisions of the same company we had many friends and associates in common. Whenever I would go to her floor of the building everyone would stop what they were doing and stare at me as if they were expecting something bad to happen. I had no clue that things changed in our relationship except for the fact that she was always "busy". People would stare and whisper and by the time she knew I was close by she would sneak out of the office. I didn't think anything about it because I really believed that she was indeed busy working on some important projects. This went on for about a couple of weeks until I talked to a mutal friend. When I asked what was going on with my girlfriend, the mutual friend said, "Oh, she told me that you guys were 'just friends' at this point and that she was dating this guy in the Marketing department."
That was a major blow. I didn't mind so much that it was over between us but she never came out and said it. Well she did, but she decided to tell everyone else. I was the only one left in the dark. I don't know if she just didnt have the courage to offically break it off or if she expected me to figure it out from the repeated incidents of ignoring me and avoiding me. When a woman that I care about tells me something, I would rather believe that what she is saying is the whole truth and than to question her motives for saying it. She could have been more fortright as it relates to the status of our relationship.
2006-09-28 02:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with someone else. If that doesn't get through, then you have a serious problem. But then again, you might not want to go that route. If telling a person that you know longer want to be with them and it's not sinking in, what I would do if it were me, I would take some legal steps. Starting by putting a restraining order on that person. That's if the person is constantly around, never leaves you alone when you ask. That sort of thing. But before taking those measures, try being firm on the matter. If they don't get it, then make the 1st move on the restraining order.
2006-09-28 02:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think breaking up with a person any other way than face to face is the worst way. For example, over the phone, on a voice message, text, letter, ect.
2006-09-28 02:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by Thandie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk away and not tell this person anything..it can be quiet painful if its romantic love/bf/gf situation even as friends. Walking away is the worst for not closing the friendship/releationship. Be honest and tell them why you want to break up it will save alot of pain, anger and broken heart. Good luck
2006-09-28 02:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In descending order from worst:
1. Getting a friend to do it for you - gives them no chance to talk to you about your reasons.
2. In written form (notes, email, IM, letter, text message) - it's so cold and impersonal.
3. Over the phone - again, it's just cold.
4. In front of others (your friends, his friends) - it's bad enough to get dumped, you shouldn't add the extra embarrassment of having others witness his humiliation.
Honestly, the best way to dump a person is face to face in private. That gives you a chance to talk it out, saves any extra embarrassment, and allows them to express their feelings without any witnesses.
2006-09-28 02:42:22 · answer #6 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God there are so many ways. The worst would have to be doing something completely cruel, such as cheating on your partner with another person and then going to your partner and telling them you cheated on them because they weren't good enough. If my girlfriend did that to me, that would be the worst pain imaginable because there's no greater pain in life than knowing you weren't good enough for the person you love. Ouch.
2006-09-28 02:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by bob t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst way to break up with someone is to tell someone else to do it for you. Talk to them yourself, sit them down and talk to them.
2006-09-28 02:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breakups are sad regardless of how it is done. But with today's technology I think that either by e-mail or texting would be a pretty low way of letting someone know it was over. Gutless way of say bye.
2006-09-28 02:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have the persons best friend over and give him a blowjo*b
put the "fluids" in a cookie mix
video tape the whole thing
send the person the cookies with a note saying that the video contains his fav tv show and tell him to watch the video after he eats the cookies
paybacks a bit*ch
2006-09-28 02:37:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know if this was bad or not, However; i never wear dresses or makeup, unless i am fixing to break up with someone. I get all dolled up go to there house and give them great sex, then kiss them deeply and look in to there eyes and say Good bye, it was nice while it lasted.
2006-09-28 02:39:30 · answer #11 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋