Is it all in the chase? You work so hard for someone and once you have that person, you realize that you've made a mistake!
2006-09-28 01:44:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You always want what you can't have.
Once you get it you don't want it anymore
and move on to the next exciting thing
2006-09-28 01:46:49 · answer #1 · answered by kandn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think it's ALL about the chase. When you "work" so hard for a person you're basing the desire to have him/her on physical appearance and maybe the surface layer of personality. You don't really know this person, but the little you've seen you like, and are intrigued. When you finally "get" the person, you get a better picture of who he or she really is, and, if this person isn't Mr or Ms right, you lose interest, because they're not what you thought after all.
2006-09-28 01:53:00 · answer #2 · answered by N0_white_flag 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes I think so- especially true of young people. Eventually one realizes that you dont walk away when a relationship gets complicated, you stay, work it out, and that's what it is really. Work. It's easy to say you've made a mistake and leave- and if you really have then do that. But remember- the price you pay for not being lonely is that you have to put up with other people's crap.
2006-09-28 02:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is all in the chase, then what you are experiencing is nothing more than pure lust....if you wanted more than just sex from the person you were "chasing", you would take the time to look past their flaws, to see the true beauty inside, that you will never see without first opening the persons heart and mind.
2006-09-28 01:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the flaw in human nature. We want something and when we get it we don't want it anymore. Why? My theory is that people always want whats best for them instead of the other way around. A good friend once told me that in a relationship you should ask yourself what can I do to make the other person happy. Most people do the opposite, they ask themselves what can this person do for me. In the end it makes you selfish and greedy eventually thinking you deserve more. I think a truly enlightened being does not suffer from this affliction.
2006-09-28 01:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens. We look at external physical attributes and are enamored.The real virtue is the intrinsic inner strength which comes with good upbringing and strong value systems which are drilled in to a person from childhood.We raely bother for these attributes. Hence the disappointment.
2006-09-28 01:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the fun ends at the end of the chase
2006-09-28 01:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you chasing them with an Axe you sound like a weirdo.
2006-09-28 01:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't it could happen, only if the person you were chasing is not the person what you thought he or she was, rather that i don't, and why guys do that or feel that why??
2006-09-28 01:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are missing is you should only chase that which you find wonderful.
2006-09-28 01:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋