He ran off like a girl but still within the same city where his family lives. It seems the girl bewitched him but he does not belive anyone can bewitch him. He did a secret CHURCH wedding for that matter. What should I as his sister do with/to him? This girl he married does not even have a good reputation anywhere but he says no...only this "Chidera"
2006-09-28 00:32:38 · 13 answers · asked by A O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If he is old enough
to be in a marriage, if it be good or bad that is his buisness. Mind your own.
2006-09-28 00:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a metal for living his life as he chooses and saying to hell with his nosy sister and family!! You & Your family need to mind your own business and stay out of his life! You have NO right to judge the person he has chosen to spend his life with!! Who are you to say she has a good reputation or not?? What gives you the right to play holier then thou? Her past is the past and none of your business! If your brother isn't bothered by it then neither should you be! People like you really disgust me!! You need to grow up and mind your own business and life would be so much better!!
2006-09-28 03:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by lil redneck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for him. My family does no approve of my brothers fiance and neither do I as much as i love her. He isn't going to see it until he sees it ok. No amount of convincing could ever get you to make him see that she isn't a good cookie. Leave it in gods hands.
2006-09-28 00:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by Redhead with love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to do anything, just pray that one day your brother will be awake from the spell casted by that girl. We can't change someone who is madly in love. It's crazy.
2006-09-28 00:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
except life the way he plans his, if he truely loves her then her reputaion doesn't matter, he is the one married,sleeping and living with her. he is your brother and family is everything. mates give up on you, not family! he probably did it secrectly due to everyone's unexceptance to his love... how would you feel if you were in his shoes, love him as your brother not the stranger from outta state. give him your blessing and assure him he is loved and for god's sake don't lose him as parents don't live forever....
2006-09-28 00:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by niknik74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its his happines, then support him...if he's old enough to make his own decisions, and there's nothing you can do to stop him, let him go...after all, he would return soon if things come to worse...
2006-09-28 00:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by viztero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its his life to live NOT yours. He has to make his own mistakes. You cannot make his choices, and if you try to you will only push him away.
2006-09-28 00:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by justthinkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love him , he is your brother and his life is his own
2006-09-28 00:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by renclrk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do, advise and let him make his own mind up
its his life
2006-09-28 00:34:04 · answer #9 · answered by Lilolme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for your brother and tolerate his wife for his sake.
2006-09-28 01:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋