i really need some help its my first proper date on saturday and i have no idea what to expected! should i expect him to pay? please help me im only 15!
2006-09-28 00:15:03 · 15 answers · asked by raeanne2710 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never expect him to pay, he may expect repayment in a way you are not willing to pay. Always bring enough money to cover your end of the date and cab fare home or at least money to call someone to come and get you. How do you behave? There is only way to ever behave, and that is to be yourself.
A lot of people make that mistake. When they go one the first dates they are on their best behavior, normally the way they would not act. When that person becomes comfortable in the relationship they slowly turn back into the person they always were, leaving the other person saying " She / He changed" No they did not change they simply went back to being the person they always were.
You can never go wrong with being yourself. That way the other person will either love you or hate you, but you will be secure in knowing that you were true not only to that person, but to yourself as well. No one could ever ask more out of you than that!
2006-09-28 00:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asked you, he pays. But bring some money in case of emergency (for food, a cab or a phone call home), let your parents know where you are going and just be yourself, Relax, talk, laugh have a good time. I don't think it is a good idea to kiss on the first date..
2006-09-28 07:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by misfit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you going? Well, you should expect him to pay like a real gentleman...but bring money in case he doesnt. :) Dont want to be left out in the cold. :)
As for how to behave...like a lady. :) Be yourself. He likes YOU for YOU and that is why he asked you on the date. :) Maybe (MAYBE) give him a quick kiss at the end IF he is looking for one (and you will be able to tell, trust me. :) LOL) but that is it. NOTHING else. :) LOL. Last thing you want is a reputation,you know?
But relax...have fun. :) Enjoy the time with him.
2006-09-28 07:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by Miz_Kassandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww how cute. OK he should pay but bring money for your own dinner because you don't want to be caught off guard. Don't be too reserved (shy) but don't be all over him either. He should set the pace, just follow. At first you will be nervous but this is natural and the feeling will go away. Compliment him. If he tries to make any moves you tell him he has got to prove himself to get the goods! Kissing is ok as long as your tongue isn't down his throat! Good luck sweetie, hope it goes well for you!!!
2006-09-28 07:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and try and relax...Offer to pay half...Don't give him anything other than that good night kiss :-) think of your reputation...Good Luck, i'm sure you'll be fine...and if not..then theres pleeeeeeeeeeenty more fishes in the sea
2006-09-28 07:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by Susie2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To young stay at home. Can't remember, it has been along time since I was 15 and dating
2006-09-28 07:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. don't get too tight up or nervous cos that will only makes him MORE nervous. treat it like a normal outing with a friend, have small talks to break the ice.
2006-09-28 07:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by chups 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asked you out he should pay for everything.
As far as how to act, just be yourself. Don't be nervous, just have a good time.
2006-09-28 07:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself, dont try to impress him just try to have fun, and yes he should pay but bring some money just in case. dont worry so much your just getting to know each other.
2006-09-28 07:18:52 · answer #9 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would expect him to pay .. but always offer to cover your expenses....
2006-09-28 07:19:47 · answer #10 · answered by sneakygirl33171 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋