I can't tell him that i love him because he's my friend. i don't want our friendship to be broken. sometimes he suspects that im gay because i can't control my feelings, you know, i always care about him.. more on actions. now im out of town for 1 yr and i miss him. what should i do?
2006-09-27 12:49:15 · 11 answers · asked by Mr.Chaos 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no..he's not gay, he's straight..
2006-09-28 00:42:11 · update #1
Some people are really open-minded, but some arent. Get a feeling about how open he is to guys being gay in general. If he doesnt care, then you can ease it on to him, but if he makes a lot of gay jokes, you probably are better off not telling him and moving on. I have 2 best friends that are gay and like eachother, so I am really open-minded and I hope that it goes good for you. I know it's probably hard with people not accepting you. I do, good luck!
2006-09-27 12:54:08 · answer #1 · answered by Hotdivababe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your friend gay too? If he's not do not tell him anything! He would get totally freaked out and it might ruin your friendship forever.
2006-09-27 19:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by Kayla C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Just let him know you still want to be friends maybe he likes you too
2006-09-27 19:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by Lil Meli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont say anything, if you do he'll run for the hills, I mean come on you're gay.
2006-09-27 19:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by icej802 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're gay right??? find out if he is gay too and then tell him you like him if he says yes
2006-09-27 19:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by funlovin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...I would go get help, you will freak him out if you do anything. Just find someone else and try to move on.
2006-09-27 19:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by Life Sucks Get A Helmet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's been a good friend to you? then why don't you just tell him that your gay?...........As far as telling him that you love him goes, is it worth losing your mate over?
2006-09-27 20:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by paulina83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dump him and get with a girl and atleast try if that does'nt work out email me.
2006-09-27 19:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't tell him that you're in love with him. Is he gay 2? IF SO MAYBE HE'LL UNDERSTAND
2006-09-27 19:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by red334chip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-27 19:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋