I broke up with my girlfriend whom I have been dating for over six months a few weeks ago and we have been living normal lives.Well at the beginning when we broke up..she kept asking me if I was dating another girl and when I asked her..she said she wanted me to date someone else ..I told her would if I meet the right girl..what is puzzling is..she got mad over me when she saw me a little close with another girl a few days ago..me and the other girl were just friends and I just cant understand her actions..cos she started yelling at me and telling me that I disappointed her and I looked like I was enjoying myself too much..and asked if I was attracted to the girl or something..which is not at all true..I am really puzzled at the way she reacted after what she told me a few weeks ago on seeing another girl...
2006-09-25 22:53:38 · 11 answers · asked by Remus L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Somehow,all of us went thru one or 2 similar scenarios as guys.
Gals,they are really hard to get to understand. But I gathered from my experience that they themselves have this thing called if-I-can't-have-it-no-one-else-can syndrome. They're borned with it.
Sometimes,it could be things we said to pacify the situation,which we knew were white lies and something we should say in that kind of situation,but they would take the words literally.
For example,they would ask you if you still have feelings for them and would you go look for other gals when you first broke up.Naturally,we would say we still have feelings and would not go look for gals as yet.
But,in their context,it's "we still love you and will never look for any gals."
So, dun get puzzled. It'll take sometime to get used to and I suggest you stay a distance away from that ex of yours.
Cheers!
2006-09-25 23:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by Geo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know what i am also suspecting my BF that he is also having another girlfriend( i wish it's not true)
i just made a blanck call on his cell and i heard the unknow noice,
so i m suspecting him andwhen i asked him regarding this he asked me what is the name of his new girl.
dont very she loves u very much so thats why she is doing all this things and i think u also love her.
just go and give her rose and say she is just my friend nothing else say it trulyl she will understand defeneatly.
bye .. best of luck
2006-09-26 05:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by Jeny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like she's jealous because she wants you to pine over her so she feels like you still have feelings for her...just tell her that now you're not together it's none of her business and that it is unfair of her to treat you this way as it was her fault you's broke up in the first place
2006-09-26 05:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by xx_lush_xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously your brain is still in the developing stage, give it a few years, and maybe you'll be able to answer this questuion yourself
2006-09-26 05:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she has A split personality, or when she said it she probably just said it to test you I know it sounds sick but, women will do that and she freaked out when you actually looked like you did.
2006-09-26 05:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by April A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens to most of us. I also felt so jelousy when my ex-galfriend told me she is getting married.
2006-09-26 05:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by Eddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, its the idea that nobody wants to be "replaced" too easily. but, the fact is you're not together anymore so you're free to do as you wish...
2006-09-26 05:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why she cares now?what do u care about what she thinks?go on with youre life cause if she did care she wouldn't leave u.than i don't understeand why u are listening to her
2006-09-26 06:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am female and I don't understand women. SO I don't expect you would, either.
2006-09-26 05:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by Jenyfer C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she loves u
2006-09-26 05:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋