I had a long term boyfriend of2years,thought he was da1 until a year and a1/2in things started to go wrong and the arguments started.Whilst with this guy I started txtin another guy+ended up seeing him he convinced me that I should finish with my now x so we could be2gether.I knew by finishing wid him I would loss mates but my boyfriend told me he would b there for me+none of that mattered as long as we were2gether.It took me3months2do this+he was really understanding I even went on holiday with my now x for a week while seeing him+he waited. What a great guy I thought? So I did it I finished with him 2 months ago now and things were great for about a month I was still bit upset bout my x so didn’t see that much of my boyfriend but when I did it was fantastic we were always txtin+talkin on da fone,he would even1ringer me if I didn’t txt bac after10mins.Then all of a sudden this all stopped he wasn’t txtin or ringing me anymore, he doesn’t even answer his phone or reply to my txts anymore.I asked him what was wrong+he told me that his x wants2get bac wid him+he doesn’t no what he wants(they have a baby 2gether).Since then I have had numerous arguments wid him telling him he needs2decide what he wants+he says me but he never wants2see me anymore,doesn’t reply2my txts+every time I phone him he sounds like he cant b bothered2talk2 me.I only see him at about11at nite after he has been out wid his mates he never wants2spend da night with me.I really miss how it was a month ago+know that im in love with him.Its so hard I just want to ring him+see him all the time like we used to but know its bugging him.
Am I seeing da worst gut ever,or is it just all in my head?
I hate the thought of being on my own makes me feel sick thinking about what iv lost just to be with him. Iv got no one that’s why im having to tell you guys whats going on.
2006-09-25 22:43:06 · 24 answers · asked by stacy c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's over. Move on.
2006-09-25 22:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by Alli 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, after finally translating what you've said into English, it seems to me that you are wasting your time with him, he clearly doesn't know what he wants, and like you've typed they have a kid together. I think that the best thing to do would be to just remember the good times that the two of you had and move on. Sometimes if you really love someone it's best to just let them go. Maybe someday he'll figure out what he wants and come back. That doesn't mean that you should be waiting for him either. You sound like you are still very young and there are many other people out there. Best of luck to you. I hope this helps.
2006-09-26 05:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by zekemilli4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh baby I feel so bad for you I really do I think you shud leave him to contact you and try and do something to take you mind of him if you ever want to talk I am here you can email me any time .I know how you feel five weeks ago my ex partner and I split up cause he was totally screwed up mentally he had a breakdown I found it so hard not to text him and spent the first three weeks crying everyday we had been together 2 and 1/2 yrs also but now we are talking and closer than we were before and seeing each other again even though I have moved away from where we lived together
2006-09-26 05:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by stephy200125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without making you feel worst...but you left your then boyfriend for another man...and he helped you on to it. That's a big no no...second, he's playing you, he's had you and now he can move on. If you want a pet to see what they are up to then don;t go for me....to much attention and talking burns the relationship out. I'm sorry to say this but I think he messing you around and that you should be on your own for a while...jumping form one relationship to the next is never good as you never get over the first relationship....well that's just my opinion. sorry
2006-09-26 05:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by Quintus T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one, you made a mistake by leaving your ex for this guy. But accept that we all make mistakes and move on. Secondly, leave this guy to sort things out on his own. remember your ex or the present guy arent the only ones for you. There will be more people in your life but you need to learn from this experience. Remember a bird in hand is worth two in the bush.
2006-09-26 05:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the lessons of love, no one fails if he/she truly loves. Love begets love, respect begets respect and you can never give what you don't have. I hope in time you will begin to realize that to love someone means you have to be whole yourself. Unless you are a whole being, unless you love and respect yourself, you can not share this feeling with anyone else. Nobody can complete you as a person, that's your job for yourself. If your not happy with your own self and your own person, who will be? We radiate inner feelings to other persons and putting low value on our selves would be sending negative vibes to other people. So, take a grip of yourself. You are a wonderful girl. Someone worthy to love and be loved in return. Finally, don't beg or don't even expect love, once you love it will flow to you effortlessly. God bless and beginning tonight know that you are loved.:)
2006-09-26 06:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by gvpocon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your feeling is normal: ) you guys been together for like two years, well maybe he might have been your first love, but what you need is really not him but yourself! you need to leave him and learn more about yourself and what you can provide for the next guy: ) remember for every girl you see, their are like 10 guys!! seriously, you need to spoil youreslf a bit, remember its not the other male that makes you live but the will that you see your self happy that brings greater things..
2006-09-26 05:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is a circle, when you come to the vertex it circles anticlock wise.
that vertex is love. most people tend to find love in every other opposite they meet but not every one becomes your life love.
Fall for the person who respects you more than he loves you, its worth falling for.
and dont worry if he is not responding cause its you who is actually on the better side cause if he aint worth it means that life has some thing better for you round the corner.
so heres the advice start over!
2006-09-26 05:56:38 · answer #8 · answered by Archilles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him...get yourself some self respect.. you are worth more than this..remember where there is a baby involved there will always be a relationship with the child's mother..on whatever level..be warned.
2006-09-26 05:48:40 · answer #9 · answered by miamivice666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously has no commitment to this relationship. Move on, it is hard but life is to short to waste on someone that doesn't want to be with you. If you back off and start living your life, if he has any interest in you he will be curious what you are doing with your life. Sounds like to me this man got off on your obsession with him at first but now is tired of it.
2006-09-26 05:51:35 · answer #10 · answered by Alicat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Galfriend, just let him be. get over it and find other interesting things to do until u get yoself another guy. to me, that bpyfriend of yoz was just trying to prove a point, and he did. its a pity u are the victim in this whole issue, but just call a spade a spade. he cant make the decision, do it for him.
2006-09-26 05:49:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋