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a year now . I love her very much but I'm not to happy that she is planning on picking him up when he's released. She tells me not to worry about it. But I can't help but not be. I realize that she 's gonna do whatever she feels is right for her and their kids. And I want her to be happy. So what I want to know is should I break it off before she leaves? And say that I'm gonna step back so she can figure out what she is gonna do with her marriage? I really feel like she has been using me this whole time until her old man gets out. And I don't have a problem with that. But I have straight up asked her if that's what was going on and she denies that is she is doing that. I'm pretty sure my instincts are right. and if they are I'm not going to be there when he goes back to jail. or he starts treating her like **** again. Any thoughts or comments on this would be cool maybe I've missed something when I've been weighing my options on this relationship

2006-09-25 22:38:25 · 24 answers · asked by scottla118 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

24 answers

I would move on, eek you could be looking at trouble when her husband gets out of jail...

2006-09-25 22:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0 0

Are you really serious on this? Of course you'll be back if he's gone again or she leaves him for whatever reason. You're obviously not 'strong' enough to leave her and her kids. Take a heart, talk to her and explain your fears. Tell her that you are afraid of getting hurt and that you'd rather leave her than being left... Thing is, I guess she's gonna leave you anyway. I'm not saying she used you, maybe she really loves you, but out of her responsibility she'll not leave him. I'm really sorry to tell you this, but I personally don't think that this thing is gonna last. Still all the best for you!

2006-09-25 22:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by Dame D 3 · 0 0

Probably she used you to satisfy her desire while the father of her children is in prison. She has a right to do so and any how you enjoyed good time and experience.. Try to find a free lady , take her near , hold her tight while you are crossing the dim roads of life together without trouble from a man coming out of jail ,move forward and do not look back.

2006-09-25 22:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by Nilehawk 3 · 0 0

Just let her make the decision either to be with her family or you.. What ever decision she make just respect her choice if you want her to be happy.. Maybe she will get back to her husband for the sake of the the children, or maybe if she really loves you and want to be with you and also with the children then you will have to accept her children as well.. Since if you are okay if found out that you are being using by her all this time, then just keep those sweet memories with you and keep on moving since she choose her family back..

2006-09-25 22:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by Vt Beauty 1 · 0 0

Ok , you have been used and if she really cared about your feelings then she would have filed for a divorce a long time ago , you should find someone else thats gonna care about you and not waste your time on someone like that . Dont let the cheater make your decisions for you be a man and walk way from her .

2006-09-25 22:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0 0

Marriages are complicated, especially ones with children. I think you should step back and tell her you would like to take a break until she makes a decision.

If she decides to be with you, then she should file for divorce. If not, then you don't want to be hurt later.

2006-09-25 22:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by Kitia_98 5 · 0 0

Leave her alone!she just cant tell you straight that she loves her family more than you.besides have pity in her children they deserve to be happy and become a complete family again .Im sure when you do this God will surely reward you by giving you the girl you truly deserve.and by that you will find true happiness.

2006-09-25 22:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by isayhavefaithnofear 1 · 0 0

Leave the country or you will have a ex-con gunning for you. You do not have any options at this point, you have run out of time. Drop her like a "hot potato", before you are hot full of lead.

2006-09-25 22:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by shardf 5 · 0 0

Back away slowly. Be friendly about it. Explain how you feel, then request the same from her. Avoid getting angry. Remember she is married. Untill you hear she has gotten a divorce. keep yourself at arms length. Better to hurt a little then to have pain for years.

2006-09-25 22:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by winter_hawk7 1 · 0 0

by the sounds of things this women is very terrified of her man in jail. maybe you should get her the hell out of their. she has been with you for a while she obv has feelings for you but is to scared to leave the asss in jail. TALK TO HER before it is to late.

2006-09-25 22:43:04 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0 0

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