My 21st is coming up and I think he will pop the big question, he is asking about if I like silver or Gold for an engagement ring, will he do it? Im so excited I want to spend the rest of my life with him... I think I should just wait and see and if it happens then it happens then I will be the happiest women alive! just want your thoughts and if you guys have the same thing going on in your lives?
2006-09-25 22:24:13 · 40 answers · asked by Sleezy chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
yes I just asked my sweetness to marry me.. and yes she was so excited..
That moment I never thought abot Silver or gold.. but all I had in my thought was her.. my love for her.. so I asked her...Is she is willing to marry me. as a wonder in my life.. She agreed..:)
I think a peice of Gold or Silver could replace the precious thing that I really wished to give her.. might be small happiness..little Joys. and a Good life is something I have in my heart to offer her.. rather than glittering Gold..
I know it is what she is in need from me..
2006-09-25 22:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by bejoys v v 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you sure he's going to buy you an engagement ring and not just a really nice ring? You're only 21 and that's awfully young to be wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone. Let things progress naturally and don't get too disappointed if he doesn't buy you an engagement ring. Enjoy your birthday and enjoy being with him. If he feels pressured into committing too soon he'll resent you and run scared.
2006-09-26 01:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by trog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not be prone to rush here. This is the best time. Enjoy each day of anticipation. When it does happen... just imagine!
Just a little caution here though, dont fall apart or fold if the time becomes longer, and you start to get confused. You can always take the "marriage discussion" a step further and find out where he is on the subject. Make it a friendly discussion. Remember...its your life too. I believe that the first rule of security should be, "knowing where you stand".
2006-09-25 22:47:48 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mentioned your age, you did not mention the length of your affairs and how honest both of you have been to each other. If he really loves you and the money is available, why would he not buy silver or gold for your engagement? If he discovers however, that you are too excited or too anxious, your weakness may make him to have a rethink. I wish you luck
2006-09-25 23:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by Michael A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before my fiancee proposed to me he was always asking me about colours of gold and looking at my fingers compared to his. I had no idea that he was going to propose when he did though and on Christmas Eve he gave me my "present" to open which was a beautiful white gold solitaire that he had planned anc chosen himself for months. A magical moment and of course I said yes. Our wedding is on 21st October. Good luck, I hope your boyfriend takes the opportunity to make your 21st a very special day!
2006-09-26 00:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by jaygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young, silver, gold, whatever, live life first, you love him now, wait until you wake up next to him for the next 70 years, will you love him then? wait until you are older, spend more time with him, be sure he is Mr Right. 70 yrs is a long long time.....
2006-09-25 22:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by pottydotty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is going to marry you!! hes going to get you this gold 24 carat diamond ring, and I will even tell you how: )>>>>> i hate to be the spoiler..
well hes going to take you to dinner after and you guys will wine and dine, and when you get your meatball soup, your going to bite a huge specailly made meatball and its going to get stuck in your throat and hes going to do some cpr on you and pop the ring out of your throat and land in his hand, and hell propose, just dont chew your meatball too hard..... good luck sweety...
2006-09-25 22:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He,ll probably do it when you lease expect it!Don,t get sad if it does not happen on your b-day,I thuoght my honey was gona ask me the day we went on day cruise to gamble for my b-day,and he never did,I was so sad,When we got home I went in bathroom and Secretly CRIED!When i came out and sat on coach,He got down on one knee and Preposed with a CARROT and a HALF DiAMOND Ring!I almost fainted,So See My friend,He,s gona ask But not wnen you Think!Good Luck!I,m So Happy for YA!Hollywood!
2006-09-25 22:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by hollywood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 out of 3 end in divorce, better to have a 3 year contract with option to upgrade to a better model.
2006-09-25 22:32:54 · answer #9 · answered by just-dave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be hinting around but then again dont get your hopes up cause if he dont you will be hurt. Just love an be good to each other, never take each other for granted
2006-09-25 22:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by Rhonda O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋