I really feel bad now and don't know what to do.
Should I tell her how I feel about the whole thing?
I did not think women were like that am I stupid.
2006-09-25 22:08:51 · 59 answers · asked by Sky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
naw... dun tell her how u feel bout this... this is 1 of those tymes where itz better nawt ta say anything... juss 4rm now... distant urself 4rm her... ur nawt stupid... every1 makes mistakes.. ur retarded if u dun learn 4rm it
2006-09-25 22:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by ju5sm3h 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You aren't stupid, you just misjudged her character, and that is an easy mistake to make, particularly when you don't know someone very well over a long time (I am assuming that this isn't a friendship that has gone on for years).
Unfortunately, there are users and abusers on both sides of the fence and you've had a run-in with one of them.
Certainly, if it will make you feel better, state your case. However, whether you will be really listened to and understood is another matter. Usually people like this are so self-involved and selfish that they can't or won't take responsibility for their actions, so you may never get an apology from her. At least you may have the satisfaction of telling her how you feel. Keep your dignity - after all, she can't take that away from you, no one can.
2006-09-25 22:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
As long as you know the repercussions-that she most likely will not care or even laugh at you. But for you to ask this question, means it still bothers you.
How will you feel if you don't ask her? Sometimes it is better to say something.
It can be casual such as "hey....I really liked you. I feel or I felt .... and...."
Try not to be too serious or put too much energy to it...you are just looking for closure.
As a human being you have feelings. Saying something might free up this energy you feel.
That you were used.
Forget if others laugh at you, your goal is to assert yourself. Sometimes the more hurt we are, it pays to sound casual...like it doesn't hurt you but you "just had to say something."
Lastly it could be a miscommunication. Maybe she was in a rush or something else. By saying something from the heart, you clear up the air.
Not everyone is honest & many get off hurting/using others.
2006-09-25 23:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
The next time you see her say "Hi". Act like nothing happened. She had fun, you had fun. You sound like you are way too young to be getting serious anyway. Especially if sex is what makes you think it's serious.
Personally I love giving oral. Experiment on her. Let her know you have a few ideas you want to try orally and see what happens. May just make you better for the next dozen of girls.
2006-09-26 02:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by yknot92688 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally I am an open-minded person so I would let her know exactly how I feel. I wouldn't care if it hurt her feelings or not cause she didn't take in consideration how you felt at the time. No you are not stupid she is for doing what she did. If you don't want to let her know how you feel than you can always use this as a learning experience.
2006-09-26 05:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by apgiggles27 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not do dance on your Problem, BUT WHOO HOO for the girl. Men have been using us For oral and leaving since before Christ came on the scene , why can't a girl do the same.! Times are changing dude, there is an old song by Barbra mandrell thats starts with " My bed feels like a bus stop the way you come and go!" dont be such a cad...grow some and move on!!!
2006-09-25 22:16:32 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda S 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
How old are you? I think our answers might be effected by that and also her age? If you are inexperienced,underage, I might suggest a quick trip to your family doctor. There are some Sexually Transmitted Diseases out there that are quick nasty.
I suggest that because an older person might have been aware enough to make sure the girl was disease free by knowing her history or what to look for. Good luck.
2006-09-26 00:57:00 · answer #7 · answered by LonelyBoy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be glad she picked you for such a great thing to do and wish I could get so lucky...I would do it agian and agian and agian and not only that I would try to find ways that I don't already know how to do ..and just make sure you have a clean mounth and be ready for the other end to preform if she also; wants it too... and then show her what I wrote here and send her and her friends my way .....
2006-09-26 09:29:45 · answer #8 · answered by automan_2 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, that's a bunch of bull ****. I would never try or allow guy to eat me out. That's just nasty! I mean if i did allow a guy to do so, I would feel obligated to do the same to him. I think she just wanted the satisfaction of telling her friends. There is always a up and downside of everything just try to fend the up side and move on.
2006-09-26 03:25:03 · answer #9 · answered by Kim Michelle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you're not that stupid, she's just a evil bi*ch!!
Move on and have nothing more to do with her, if you want to tell her how you feel, write it all down on a piece of paper then burn it. Stay as far away as possible from the worthless piece of slime!!
2006-09-25 22:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetcakes 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouln't have to feel bad about the mistakes others have made. It was against you,sure. But sounds to me like she's the one with the problem. Get over her and go on to better things. The better things are out there.
2006-09-26 00:43:15 · answer #11 · answered by dreamer 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋