2006-09-25 22:06:32 · 23 answers · asked by Weezy 26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I lived with all guys my last 2 years of college. At one point I even lived in a frathouse. You know what? The guys were far easier to get along with than the girls I lived with. Less catty, less flaky, less bitchy...there to take out the trash, help move furniture, or kill bugs if you need them...that kind of stuff. We mostly kept to ourselves, but I always felt safer knowing there were men in the house. My boyfriends never seemed to mind, because they trusted me, which is something you should start doing with your girlfriend. As long as she has her own room, and the guy isn't a complete sleezebag, let her do it! If you don't let her do it, she might resent you forever for not letting her make her own decisions. And if she cheats on you, it wasn't meant to be anyway.
2006-09-25 22:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust her until she shows you otherwise! Some women get along better with men as roommates than with women. I'd prefer a male roommate too. The differences alone make it better for both.
2006-09-26 05:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my friend I think you have a big problem here... My opinion is that ur girl doesn't care a lot about you and what do you think about the choises she's making... She seem to care only about her self and what makes her happy... That's not how it works when ur in a relationship... So the best you can do is first of all to tell her that ur not agree with this decision of her's.... If she's not listening then just WALK AWAY... She doesn't worth to have you
2006-09-26 05:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by missy2pac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-26 05:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't stress it, I have several friends of oppisite sexes living as housemates & it works really well. Is this guy a friend or is it just some radom thing "I want to move in with a guy"?. Just remember - she's *your* girlfriend, no one is forcing her to be so don't be too insecure about other guysi n her life.
2006-09-26 05:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by shirazzza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there is nothing you can do..the choice is not yours. If her choice is for a male other than you then a tiny light should go off in your head.
Now would be the time to show how much class you have.
If you go around hollowing, yelling and cursing, your chance will be lost.
2006-09-26 05:25:19 · answer #6 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to ask a new question below in the next week. Take the risk !
"My Girl friend has ditched me for the sake of her room mate. What should I do?"
2006-09-26 05:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Dumb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have my best friend (male) as a flatmate and we both have our private life, coz we live in separate rooms. but if hes gonna be her roommate - thats not healthy, mate. dressing up? messing around in a towel after having shower? in front of a guy?? nope, thanks.
2006-09-26 05:19:55 · answer #8 · answered by Lex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let her have her roommate ,and see what happens.
2006-09-26 05:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by coupnomo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea dude! 2 guys and a girl! now tell me what do u think?
2006-09-26 05:16:36 · answer #10 · answered by LiL' JON 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋