2006-09-25 22:02:42 · 30 answers · asked by chanty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to him and see what he is going to do.
2006-09-25 22:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by kissie623 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you should support him but remain behind the scenes unless and until you marry him, then as the stepmother you will play a more parental role. There could be a great deal of conflict if you step past him instead of standing beside him. If this man has proven to be trustworthy and will not step back with this ex girlfriend and create a worse situation for you then you shouldn't have difficulties.
2006-09-25 22:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him Because that would be better for you in the long run . Because the bond that has been made cannot be ignored ,leave alone how much u love him.Right the very moment your boyfriend would be held responsible for this,
but in case you come into picture the girl will blame you for this and will curse you throughout her
life whereever she is.And bear this into mind that her curses will surely work for you. It would be hard but be strong and take a right move....I hope u understand what i mean to say
2006-09-25 22:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by tej 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have to leave and support him, if they are getting back together for a new start family.. Depends on how he want to be and what way he want to choose.. If he still want to be with you but also want to be responsible for the child, you need to fully support him, maybe he will choose to marry you but still be the father of the child.. Then he can take over the child for custody where you need to accept the child as your own.. Things will be going fine if you guys decided on how to settle all this calm and easy way.. Good Luck..
2006-09-25 22:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by Vt Beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she got pregnant before you got together support him and stick with him (if u love him),if he cheated on you with her and the pregnancy happened because of that dump him move on and find someone better cause he aint worth it .If you think you can handle the fact his ex will always be a part of his life and in a few months so will someone else then you go for it
2006-09-25 22:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by stephy200125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't say if the ex is pregnant by your boyfriend. I'm guessing that's an important factor.
If it's your boyfriend's kid - do you want that baby / child / toddler / 1st grader / teenager / person in your life?
If so, stick around - it's going to be a bumpy ride!
If not - there are plenty of boyfriends around who do NOT get other gals pregnant.
2006-09-25 22:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by denniscatchain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him then support him, ask him to always be honest with you, arrange to see his child together when it's born and make sure he supports his child, keep good relations with his ex and the child will benefit from you all, it takes a special person to do this but special people do exist.
2006-09-25 22:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by pottydotty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Errr... please clarify something for me?
Did she get pregnant while he was with you? If so move on and find some-one more worthy of your love.
If she was pregnant before you two got together, then all you can do is support him if he decides to be a parent to his child. If he decides he wants nothing to do with the child, what type of a man are you mixed up with?
2006-09-25 22:28:27 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetcakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ask him what he wants to do...marry his ex for the child and still have a feelings for the girl or just be a father to the child but not marrying the girl.If you really love him you must leave him if he chose the 1st one and support him for the second choice.The child needs to have a father and don't deprived that right.
2006-09-25 22:20:36 · answer #9 · answered by ress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your boyfriends ex is pregnant doesnt mean he doesnt love you anymore, stand by your man he will need all the help he can get. Let him look after the child maybe you could help him....??
2006-09-25 22:41:20 · answer #10 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tricky
if your sure he want you then support him but if theres a chance of him and the ex rekindling things talk to him about it and see what happens
just cus they got a kid dont mean there meant for eachother remember hes with you know but dont force him to choose or you might loose
2006-09-25 23:17:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋