i always find myself meeting the same "type" of people. whether it's dating, work, or just socializing. i meet needy, aggressive women, and mousy, submissive men, who cater to them. i know this is a reflection of my own inner state, but what can i do about myself to break out of this cycle?
2006-09-25 21:09:48 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol julian
2006-09-25 21:28:25 · update #1
Kid, take a walk and not be yourself at any one time. Leave all of your inhibitions and personal standards at home and just be friendly to anyone you meet in the street. Just beware of muggers... but you will soon realize that the world is larger than you think it is...
... and so you go on to explore and meet better ones.
2006-09-25 21:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by Bummerang 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of "same place, same thing?" You need to go out and do something totally different. True, you might meet the same type of people. You won't know until you try...........
2006-09-26 04:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by java_g_man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break out of ur comfort zone n explore the world...! Ditch your usual hang out places... ditch your style of clothing... different types of people go 2 different types of places... n the way you dress can attract specific groups of people also... be willing to explore and the world will explore u =)
2006-09-26 04:13:33 · answer #3 · answered by ju5sm3h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
save up and go on that one special vacation... a cruise or to another country..... meet different ppl in far away locations..... break the cycle....... God bless
2006-09-26 04:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try different places, places you wouldn't normally go.
2006-09-26 04:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by Game Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out in a place that you would never do under different circumstances...
2006-09-26 04:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to new places
2006-09-26 04:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should change your way of thinking
2006-09-26 04:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
but
why would you do that?
2006-09-26 04:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by Jill-mommy of a cute lil fellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋