y dont they ever try n understand their felings?? y are do they behave so normal when nothing is normal.... why? why? why? why do they always need to be nudged to do anythign and everything... and when told they think we get too nudgy about stuff
2006-09-25 20:53:31 · 22 answers · asked by so sick of love songs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because no girl would want a man who is "in touch with his feelings". Sure that's what girls say they want . . . but if you look at the guys that actually get dates they are not anything like that. That is not for any shortage of men like that either.
Don't be too pushy when you want men to open up! And promise not to be disgusted by the vulnerability they show. Just be there and listen. If you see that he's got a problem, ask him about it. If he feels good, you can make him feel even better by being there.
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Good night!
2006-09-25 21:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not we arn't all like that. It hurts everytime I hear anyone say anything like that. I find it hard to acquire a woman's trust respect and even love because of the men who have set those ideas into women's heads. I am not gay by anymeans, but I feal like you do, I hate guys for that. We are almost all insensative and all around ***-holes. In my experiences, I am the only guy I know that has this very same view. Don't let it get you down, I'm sure that someone close to you can help. It sounds as though he is not all that good at understanding how you feel and where you are coming from, so find ways to make it more obvious, but without pointing it out. Ya know what I mean?
Hey, I noticed that you have had alot of issues with this situation, I wanted to give you advice sooner but I didn't figure it was my place. If you would click on my name under my avatar, send me a message so that I can reply to it and give some extra advice. Please, for your sake. I think I might be able to help a little. You never know.
2006-09-26 04:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by randall w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because that is how they are raise. boys are raised beliving that showing your feelings is weak and not manly. Those that do choose to go against this are then chastized by society and exiled. there are men out there that are empethetic and there are men that are empethetic in private. There are also those that are just closed off. As for the nudging, no one likes to be told to do anything, and nudging to often or to hard becomes a push.
2006-09-26 03:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Penelope said it all. Guys don't think or feel the same way girls think and feel so the stuff that matters to girls doesn't matter to guys and vice versa. They can't help being this way but you can help them change. Just be patient. They usually get better with age.
2006-09-26 03:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys think that women are neurotic and pushy. How much easier would this world be if everyone were homosexual. Women could get all of their feelings heard and met while the guys could be guys.
2006-09-26 04:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by BSFSU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz guys dont want to be girls. Plus, nobody like a girly man anyway.
2006-09-26 04:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by srroldan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys have a different set of emotions.... they r strong from the outside but do feel with in...
if u cannot see their emotional side i think u r blind (n not that they r dumb)
dont get me wrong dear but guys have a lot of feelings .... only they show it off differently...
2006-09-26 05:38:16 · answer #7 · answered by BignTall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys 2 are emotional but girls don"t stop in 1 station.
2006-09-26 04:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by vikas s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you all girls so emotional, dumb and non understanding when it comes to guys??
2006-09-26 07:10:31 · answer #9 · answered by the_hauntid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first there's adam, and then god created eve. What the heck do you think the purpose of having eve around? She completes the set.
2006-09-26 03:56:59 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Pleased to Please 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋