Men, what would you think if you asked a woman out and she told you clearly while accepting the date, "I'm not interested in having sex until we know eachother MUCH better".
Would you still want to take her out?
Would that scare you off? :)
Seems like it would be so much easier to just make that perfectly clear and then let him decide if he still wants to go?!:)
Would it scare a good man off?
2006-09-25 20:47:39 · 17 answers · asked by me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she said that, I would probably still go, but would have her pegged as an uptight psycho.
I wouldn't bother asking for another date.
2006-09-25 20:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would still be game. Maybe a lot of men would be put off by it, but not me. I am of the same opinion not to have sex until at least 8 dates or 2 months. With all of the diseases in this world, playing with a hand grenade makes more sense than to screw on the first date. LOL
2006-09-25 20:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I cant understand when going on a date means you have to have sex afterwards, im confused...I would not make that statement, if the guy said after the date, well i bought you dinner you owe me something, he can go to h*ll. Date does not =sex, nor should it be expected....
2006-09-25 21:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it will not scare a good man off why cause not all men are looking for sex okay if we want sex then we just hire a hooker okay .men are interested in a girl not just sex alone okay i mean for companionship or being with a girl just to have a friend that will listen if you have a problem or just being happy with a nice beautiful girl around to talk to when your lonely okay and sex will come afterwards if u are finally committed to one another okay or in marriage . in my owns word i hope u don't get offended on this ... {slutts are for sleeping around while nice decent modest girls are for marrying } okay thanks.
2006-09-25 21:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
So lf u wanna go out with him did u have any feeling 2 him.lf have maybe u need 2 think about it.Don't let yourchance fly away.4 me it not a problem having sex or not.U won't scared me.
2006-09-25 21:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by gen2 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
while i think that the concept of getting to know each other first IS the way to go...if that was one of the first things she said...i'd be a little shocked. but it wouldn't scare me off. it really shouldn't scare any "good" guy off, because they already know that anyway (or should!)... i'd agree with you, but i'd be surprised as to why you even brought it up in the first place. i wouldn't be looking for love-making on the friggin first date! jeez! haha
2006-09-25 20:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by j-man 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would go and enjoy our time getting to know each other. If we were to start to get close in the future she would have to make the first moves
2006-09-25 20:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by want2wild 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd be very impressed if a girl that's going on a date with me and told me that up front. It shows that she's committed and respects herself. I'll try very hard to live up to her standard :)
2006-09-25 20:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would not go and I would not ask her again if she was to think that the only reason I asked her out was for sex she has deep rooted mental problems.
2006-09-25 21:15:06 · answer #9 · answered by jim 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
sumin similiar happened 2 meh recently.. i was c-in sum1.. n after the 3rd meetin... he expected sex on the 4th tyme we met up
i came home n sent hym a msg clearly statin im nawt lookn ta have sex w/ hym... n said if he decides ta move on i'd b cool w/ it... well he said sumin bout... i c wat ur tryna do so i think im nawt worth ur tyme n ur nawt worth mine... etc etc... n i've never heard 4rm hym again...
r u guys really juss lookn 4 sex?
2006-09-25 20:52:34 · answer #10 · answered by ju5sm3h 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋