Me and my boyfriend separated last night and we cant get back together he has committment issues one minute he loves me the next he is confusesd, hows the best way to get over him?
Ive deleted all his numbers, I just want rid now and meet someone who loves me but no doubt he will contact me in a few days when hes feeling lonely.
2006-09-25 20:42:13 · 24 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oooh ive been through this and when i actually sat down and thought about it i was angry at him for stringing me along and not being true to me so i put on some angry music ie Linkin park sang my heart in my room to it as loud as i could, then phoned trough to some friends both male and female friends gave them a brief outline about what has happened went out had a good time made sure i didnt think about it, which is hard coz you hear songs that remind you of times but jus swallow hard keep smiling and then youll find other people are attracted to you and jus socialise with other people make some more friends, but dont get completely drunk first time round it doesnt help at the end of a night, get yourself a vibrator or if you rather a man its up2 you but not a good idea because you need to stay away from men in that way till your completely comfortable with yourself and become independant, if you need to talk bout it more just mail me on this id, good luk girl its hard but hey im having the time of my life now and im independant, found someone new after 6mths of being on my own, just swallow those tears and go for it x
2006-09-25 20:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 17:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/sJqAp
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-21 12:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have stronger feelings for him than he has for you, so you have to be careful you don't keep going back and hurting yourself.
You really need to have a break and go out and enjoy your friends. Don't put any pressure on meeting someone because you will more than likely meet the wrong person. Be on the look out for sure, but for someone who has a similar personality to you, who has the same morals and whom you can have a laugh with. Remember, if someone doesn't make you happy don't be with them- life is too short.
2006-09-25 20:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by P R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check this out.
George Strait - She Let Herself Go Lyrics
He wondered how she'd take it when he said goodbye.
Thought she might do some cryin': lose some sleep at night.
But he had no idea, when he hit the road,
That without him in her life, she'd let herself go.
Let herself go on a singles cruise,
To Vegas once, then to Honolulu.
Let herself go to New York City:
A week at the Spa; came back knocked-out pretty.
When he said he didn't love her no more,
She let herself go.
Let herself go on her first blind-date:
Had the time of her life with some friends at the lake.
Let herself go, buy a brand new car,
Drove down to the beach he always said was too far.
Sand sure felt good between her toes:
She let herself go.
Let yourself go honey.
Just let yourself go.
*smile*
2006-09-25 20:48:19 · answer #5 · answered by skevans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try telling and scolding him at his mistakes he did ( am sure he has done some, some blunders, maybe ). make him feel jealous by praising another boy and dont get sentimental about him.
but, is it that easy to break a relation? not good on a girl's part.
good luck!
2006-09-25 21:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was always told the best way to get over a man is another man!
2006-09-25 21:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by jaygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweeti..its up 2 you if u still want to be friends..but its best if you leave it this way...u both have tryed hard enough already..and this is it..god has made it this way so be happy...
by getting over him you just go to do your thing sweeti...go out with your girlfriends...clubs?..coffie..just do all the things u wanted to do but you couldnt to when you were with him..
dont go looking 4 love...i promiss you..it will come
=)
2006-09-25 20:48:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no easy answer to this question, other than leave it for a while perhaps a month or to let your heart repair, then start again and be cautious. Hope this helps
2006-09-25 20:51:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get another lover but much hotter than your last one so you can get over him easier but if you love your ex more than anything take action and try every thing you can to make him love you like you loved him and share your feelings about him
2006-09-25 21:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by vanja s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋