do they realy enjoy using thier finger instead of thier penis or the girls force them to use
and if girls enjoy more from using the finger so there is no need for men unless they have cut their while they were doing that business.
2006-09-25 20:35:31 · 26 answers · asked by nasir A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, number one ... you question doesn't make sense in the details (reread it.) But moving on ... some girls like guys to sexually arouse them with their hands because not every girl gets off through traditional intercourse. Traditional intercourse does not stimulate the clitoris which is the easiest way for a girl to orgasm. I have yet to experience an orgasm via sex and I have heard that either I can't or that I just haven't been with the right person that can reach my g-spot which is somewhere in the vaginal cavity against the uterus wall. However, if a guy plays with my clitoris, I can orgasm almost immediately. For me (and I am sure a lot of girls out there) isn't not that we don't love sex. Of course we enjoy the penis. It's the closest that we can get to you and the emotional bond is sometimes stronger than the physical bond. But when it comes to feeling as good as we make you feel through sex, we would like to be taken care of first via hand interaction. I have heard, though not tried, that you can accomplish this while having sex, by either the girl arousing herself or the guy doing it while the penetration is in progress. Either way, there is a need for a man. I can make myself orgasm (as can a guy) but I'd much rather a guy be doing it. Just because we can accomplish these feelings individually does not mean that it is the way we want it. Think about it. You can masterbate but wouldn't you rather have a girl give you a hand job? Girls are the same way but a little more difficult since they can't always orgasm from sex. BUT ... while a guy can almost always orgasm from sex, a girl can orgasm from some gentle touching OVER and OVER again. I guess it is God's way of making up for the pain of child birth.
2006-09-25 20:46:48 · answer #1 · answered by caroline 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are a girl, you've had both used on you and one is used in the part of the game called foreplay. The other one for the real job.
If you are male, then you are so green you can't tell your *** from a hole in the ground. Cut your finger nails and use a finger to arouse them proper, then the dick for fcukign.
2006-09-25 21:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by kombo6m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a new one for me. Maybe he is a girl posing as a man. There was a world famous jazz musician who was a woman but married a woman, adopted kids and lived for 45 years with no one knowing he was a she, until he died. Devastated his family. I'd check out the equipment if nothing else. A finger never had an orgasm that I know of.
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2006-09-25 20:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by joker_32605 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder how old you are and how many girlfriends you have had? I would think you have never had a long term relationship because no girl would put up with a guy who thinks he only has to use his dick to please a girl. Unless of course you are filthy rich, then I guess you will always find one girl who will lie to keep you happy. That's sad.Before you take another girlfriend, (if you can get one) can I suggest you brush up on your sexual knowhow? I can't think of anything worse than being in bed with a guy as ignorant as you, it would be better to watch paint dry!!
2006-09-25 21:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by pottydotty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none taken. yet i agree. approximately 80-ninety% % of dudes basically wanna seize some a**. they don't care a pair of females character or thoughts. basically there *****. i'm going to assume you got here out of a foul relationship, or you have been questioning approximately that for each week and had to get it out. yet seek for the dude sitting on my own or along with his relatives. he's not a dick or a perve.
2016-10-01 09:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly you're exactly right. If some men uses their finger, then indeed they don't have dick.
Just pity them, and offer condolences for the loss of their dick.
2006-09-25 20:45:48 · answer #6 · answered by jaydee78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both is best....enter slowly...then push your finger inside along the length as well with thumb outside to stimulate...sit back and simmer for 20 minutes before serving...
2006-09-25 20:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by Adams abs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't so much as that we do not know how to use our penises or we are feeling sexually inadaquate downstairs. He probably are using our fingers in order to get you aroused and as part of the foreplay. We know that penitration alone is not going to get you to orgasm. Would you rather us just poke you without you experiencing and pleasure?
2006-09-25 20:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best is both penis AND fingers, Doggy style, with a reach around to the clit and the other hand a firm grasp of the opposite breast.
2006-09-25 20:40:50 · answer #9 · answered by Composer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats just the start, start small finish big, if you dont like the finger, tell him to go straight for the dick. its supposed to be enjoyment, so stop moaning.
2006-09-25 20:57:16 · answer #10 · answered by traveller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋