2006-09-25 20:26:08 · 24 answers · asked by adriboff 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
loads of cash so that we can stay home and be homemakers instead of stealing mens jobs...and yes it matters what he does for a living. He should be an actor specialising in period dramas and rom coms or the owner of a teddy bear factory...failing all else we will settle for the usual bog standard wolf in sheeps clothing,hehe ;0)
2006-09-27 07:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say the job doesn't matter. Being Lazy is not good though its just going to annoy girls if you sit around all day doing nothing. The right girl however won't care what you do for a living. A guy who is honest is what girls want the most well I think so anyway.
2006-09-26 03:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not date someone who did not work or could not financially support them-self. I pay my own way, I can afford to pay my rent and bills, but I am not supporting someone else. Obviously if my b/f was made redundant then I would be happy to support him while he was trying to find a new job, but he would have to make every effort to get another job. I do not care what job someone does, because I think that every job needs to be done, and there is no shame in doing a "lowly" job, because at least you are working at all and not being a sponger
2006-09-26 03:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would not date a guy that is permanently unemployed however i would not discriminate against any particular job. To be utterly honest with you i have a long list of do's and don'ts however i can guarantee so do most woman. The thing is it's all theory's until we meet the guy it's all theory's after we meet them what we thought we wanted/needed is different to what we actually have and were glad about it.
2006-09-26 03:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For long term relationships, having a partner with decent work and good financial status is a factor but not the sole source of happiness for any relationship.
Women would rather go for a man who has broad shoulders to cry on, having a big heart to be able to receive and reciprocate emotions and love- only a few good men has those.
Decent women are looking for their Knight and Shining Armour, a man who has broad shoulders to listen, a man who shows how much he loves her not only with words but in actions, a man who can be strong in times of weakness, a man who would not take her for granted, a man who would say no to disloyalty and a man who has the balls to mean what he says and does it. Money and looks doesn't matter....
If I may rephrase Pascal's quote.....If a woman loves a man for his built and handsomeness, does she love him? No; for the small-pox, which destroys his physical appearance without killing her, causes her love to cease. And if any one loves you for your judgment or your memory, does he really love you? No; for you can lose these qualities without ceasing to be. When someone loves you- I mean truly loves you- appearance will matter the least its your character and heart that counts. A truly remarkable woman would rather choose a heart of gold than running after you for looks and wealth.........
Although its also important to be able to sustain the lifestylt that you want and you can afford, wouldn't it be wonderful to have someone attached to you not because of what you can give to them or what will she get out of it?
2006-09-26 04:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by yunesa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So long as the guy is a decent respectable loving kinda guy - then no the job shouldnt affect the relationship - basically so long as it pays the bills etc - and I dont mean the ladies bills when I say that - just his own!
2006-09-26 03:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you seem to have asked a genuine question! well done.
Its the man that matters more to me than his job, i guess if he is reliable, trustworthy and capable of holding down a job that's a start! however, it wouldn't necessarily stop me from getting to know someone if they were um employed, not if they seemed nice.
Be honest, reliable,caring,funny and don't get over jealous about nonsense that shouldn't even be an issue in the first place.
2006-09-27 07:39:43 · answer #7 · answered by Booie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An honest and down to earth man that I can have fun with. A job doesn't matter as long as you can live comfortably and not away from home too much.
2006-09-26 03:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by cac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter what job the guy does at all (well thats what i think anyway)....as long as he's genuine, reliable, kind, easy 2 talk 2 + u love them then thats all that counts, well the love thing can be worked on if the person isnt in love at that very time i suppose....
2006-09-26 08:52:06 · answer #9 · answered by lil niks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the job doesnt matter as long as it is legal... the one important thing is that the guy is a good person and both people care deeply about eachother
2006-09-26 03:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by ??? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋