Why is it that mf gf always expects me to get her in the mood...
when she never ever gets me in the mood.. am i expected to always get her in the mood?
how am i suppose to know when to get her in the mood?
2006-09-25 20:22:28 · 8 answers · asked by chiller 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we both 25 years old... going out for bout a year now.. live 2gether.. at first we were t it like every day.. now im lucky 2 get some once in 2 weeks.. what am i doing wrong? y do i always have to get her in the mood?
2006-09-25 20:32:03 · update #1
relationships aren't about right vs wrong or good vs bad
you've got all the answers yourself...why is it that your g/f expects you to get her in the mood? does she constantly seem to put the responsibility for her happiness on you? being responsible for another's happiness - that's a lot of pressure, isn't it? if you are always minding her business...who will be minding yours? what if you take care of you, she takes care of herself and you come together as two complete individuals each bringing your special qualities to the table, and what if you COMMUNICATE to eachother what you want while she respects your masculinity and you respect her femininity? that is the essence of a mature relationship.
2006-09-25 20:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by VegasUrbanCowgirl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DUMP HER - there is no sense staying in a relationship where you have a stronger sex drive than her. There are alot of women out there who can match yours. If you do decide to marry this one, then forget about sex other than on holidays/birthdays when she feels "obligated". You're much better off finding someone who can keep up with you.
Until then, just forget about asking for sex, let it go and see how long it is before she starts talking about why you don't want it anymore. This will give you a good idea how long in-between she is ok with.
2006-09-25 20:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by Steve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a year together means a decent comfort level.if u get her in the mood everytime that means she is never in the mood.she doesnt connect to u that well anymore.there is something wrong about this relationship.she could be distracted or may be not satisfied.few reasons y somebody looses interest.u need to talk it out.
2006-09-25 20:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by S S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did not mention an age.. are you her first? Maybe she is shy? Thinks it is "taboo" for her to enjoy sex? There could be as million reasons why she always expects you to make the first move. You need to talk to her... she is the only one who can answer your question.. AND if your relationship is going to go anywhere you need to be able to be open about ALL things.
2006-09-25 20:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by sweetsal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't you know by now females think you can read their minds. I usually turn it around and when they ask something, I tell them they should already know. It breaks them of that crap after awhile.
But just take things slow and she'll get into the hang of things, if your not interested and she is she'll do something to get it.
2006-09-25 20:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh... YEAH!
Remember. It is a "mental" thing for a woman.
PS.
Stop being selfish. That's your biggest problem.
*wink*
2006-09-25 20:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by skevans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is the key! That's what love means btw two people :)
2006-09-25 20:26:29 · answer #7 · answered by chiayin20 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
huh I've never heard of that before i guess just when ever u want it
2006-09-25 20:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by murkymom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋