Either way you're spending money for "services."
2006-09-25 20:12:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hahaha. that's brilliant.
2006-09-25 20:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
It is not legalized prostitution because with prostitution, everything is straight forward. There are no feelings invovled and everyone knows exactly what is going on. There is a guaranteed transference of sex for money. However, I know what you are getting at and I have thought about it before. Since I don't date a lot, I don't go out with a lot of guys and have them pay for stuff. But yes, I think in a lot of cases if a guy takes a girl out and "wines and dines" them there is an expectation for a "closing of the deal." However, the reason it's not the same as prostitution is because the girl doesn't have to do anything that she doesn't want to. And if the girl has sex with a guy because she feels obligated to than she just has low self esteem and in basically a bit of a slut. I feel like the person that asks the other out is obliged to pay the first time. (Usually it's the guy but more and more, girls are taking the first step and I think that they should be the ones to pay if they were the asker.) However, it seems that you usually know if you are hitting it off after the first couple of dates and if those dates become more numerous and you both seem to dig eachother than the paying should become more equal. There are those girls who never even look at their purse when the check arrives and that is just because they are looking for a free meal or who just have that "the guy always pays" philosophy too engrained in their head. They could be gold-diggers or I have heard (from some of my ridiculous friends) that because woman have to spend so much on looking pretty, than the guy should spring for the bill. However, the smart, modern woman usually tries to level the playing field. After a couple of dates, she should be paying her fair share because it shows that she is confident and doesn't need to depend on a guy to pay for everything. Yes, there are many different situations but in almost every relationship I have had, once I knew things were moving forward, I tried to help pay because it just didn't seem fair. (And this didn't even have anything to do with sex, I could have had sex with them already or not have.) If the guy makes more than they obviously want to pay more just because they know they can afford it and it's the chivalrous (I suppose, in the traditional sense) thing to do. In my experience, yes, it's great when someone else pays but you also have to show that you are willing to pay. There have been times when I have tried to argue over the bill and tried to convince him to let me pay. Even if I lose, at least he knew I was willing. There have also been times when I knew I owed a dinner that I have tracked down the waiter before the bill was given and slipped him my credit card and I know the guy appreciated it because I took the initative and saved having the whole arguement at the end of the meal. However, if you really and personally belived that dating is legalized prostitution than you might just be dating the wrong girl. Because in this day in age, girls should not always expect the guy to pay but should also not be giving it up on the first few dates. I wish you could meet me and discover what the "new" age of woman are supposed to be. I am not trying to be cocky and I am definitely not a feminist but with all these girls bitching about their rights and equality, they should start freakin' acting like it, right?
2006-09-25 20:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by caroline 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ive asked this myself a couple of times, but i ran the numbers,
When your dating, you can have sex as much as u want depending on the girl, and on average u go out like what every weekend. i personally spend about 100 bucks a weekend on her. but i end up ******* her about 12 times during the week/weekend, so she would be making less than 10 bucks a job, which isint that much, when prostitutes cost over 60 bucks.
anyways. dating is semi like legalized prostitution, but on the other hand, prostitutes are loving/caring/dont cook good/ and also arent willing to have your children,
woman in relationships, basically there is one goal for the man and woman, ****, and remake, so that we can continue to repopulate the earth.
2006-09-25 20:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I go out the female insists on paying, does that make me the prostitute? And yes she does it to get some.
2006-09-25 20:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go stick your head back down in the sand and don't come out for another 100-years or so. Oh yeah try not to get too attached to anyone while your "doing" them.
2006-09-25 20:19:24 · answer #5 · answered by java_g_man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You spend - true... but you dont "pay" your date as you would pay a pros
besides, you dont "agree" on certain "services" in return for the money.
2006-09-25 20:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by TulipGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dating is not. Sleeping with a person who is not your wife/hubby is what is prostitution.
2006-09-25 20:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by kombo6m 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's pretty sick.
If you're only dating to get laid, why don't you just go pay for the services directly?!
2006-09-25 20:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by Candy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, unless your date is sleeping around with hundreds of men and getting cash for it.
2006-09-25 20:18:36 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Oh good grief.
Is this how you view relationships and life in general?
2006-09-25 20:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by Cassandra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well there is a question that many a person is scratching there head on! LOL
2006-09-25 20:16:00 · answer #11 · answered by CubbysMom 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋