Are all guys lying jerks? Seems like they draw you in and then you bust them on one lie after another. I think it happens to me every time. Maybe I should just turn gay. I'm sick of getting hurt. But the lying jerks seem to find me.
2006-09-25 19:17:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think some of you took the turning gay thing just a wee bit too seriously
2006-09-25 19:45:18 · update #1
It's just not your time to meet a decent man. Right now your just meeting jerks. But it will get better once you start to get wiser as you grow older and know what you want. Some men are so childish. But in time you will see right through those type. Hang in there! There is a honest man out there for you.
2006-09-25 19:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn gay? That's not the answer! Yes, they all lie!
I got so sick of being lied to I started reading up on some detection methods!
There is a book called "How to tell if someones lying to you in 5 minutes or less" & "Never be lied to again". They're written by a man named David Lierberman (or something close to that).
They are very easy to rea and understand!
It makes all the difference in the world to be able to read the signs!
2006-09-26 02:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by Candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are focusing on them too closely. May be they are not lying to you. Maybe they are just not telling you all you want to hear. Then again they could all be pigs. But don't go gay. Go smart and lay your cards on the table from day one. Why not? If you are being completely honest with them then they will more than likely run for the hills or turn out to be the person you want him to be. Trust me. The sooner you let them know what you are thinking the sooner you will know what they are thinking.
2006-09-26 02:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find the nice guy who isn't a jerk . can you stand the boredom and like him. no...so maybe there's still some more time in the jerk path. there are fun jerks and killer jerks. the later only hurts feelings but the former turns you on.
but doesn't women lie. so what if it's lieing as long as they try to protect your feelings and the intention is good.
imagine if a doctor tells a cancer patient : i'm afraid you just have to die. give it up. you're hopeless. the chance is there but it's rather slim. would you like a discount for a good funeral service i know. hey..as least i'm trying to save your pockets from the expensive treatments.
2006-09-26 02:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by Tosh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol! I've said the same thing, but gay just ain't the way for me. I likes me mens too much, jerks as they can be.
Turn the tables on em. Don't lie, but be a player just to the point where you don't get hurt. Get to a point where you are out to have fun and these idiots can't get to you anymore. (I guess a little part of you has to die first in order to achieve this state, but I digress.)
Anyhoo, best of luck to ya. And don't go gay. Not that there's anything wrong with that........
2006-09-26 02:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by smallweed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some one said ( i forgot who and i had to translate ) " you attract the kind of people you hate when you advertise your self to every one". I'm not saying you're a whore I'm just saying of every one knows you're looking for a date some people will only take advantage of that.
Instead of trying to find a guy, let a guy find you. Dating has to be the worst way to find some one. They only show you a face they want you to see and you do the same. Then when you really get to know them, you wish you never knew them at all.
I'm not saying don't have a relationship with some one, I'm just saying take your time.Become friend with them first so you get to know the real them.
You have to compromise when you try to hard to have/keep a relationship and no one wants that.
2006-09-26 02:31:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the time to find a decent guy.
john donne (the indifferent) - I can love her and her and you and you, I can love any, so she not be true.
If you become a player and treat guys like the one just treated you, you will only be just as bad and probably mess up a good thing.
Remember that guys have to same thing to say about women. I think there is some unwritten law that doesn't allow good men and decent women to meet.
2006-09-26 02:39:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense. Lies are for covering the truth about something and it takes more lies to cover up a lie. It's like dominos. Once it starts, it won't end until the last domino piece falls down. Communication is the key. We all just need to open up and tell the truth about something or keep it covered up and explained that the truth about something can not be told.
2006-09-26 02:22:08 · answer #8 · answered by Cie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy who called you a hoe is a jerk off. Anyways, most men are liars and dogs but I do believe there is someone special out there for you and me. I feel that we draw in what we put out there. Be patient and trust and believe that cutie is just waiting for his princess to arrive.
2006-09-26 02:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by Eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least I m not lying. I am a male of 54 with one wife and 2 kids having happy married life. Love to chat.
2006-09-26 02:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by har 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋