I'm a male college student having girl problems. All the way through High School there was a lack of datable girls in my life and hence I never had a girlfriend. I've had several close female friends. I had my first girlfriend last year. I'm not really even sure how it came about. My my lifelong problem has been talking with and and messing up with girls I like.
I did have some bad experiences in High School with girls but I have had these problems for longer than that. When ever I try to get help from people they always give bs answers like "just be yourself" or "just go for it". I do currently have a crush on a girl I know froma few of my classes. We sit next to eachother for one of them. I've been trying to ask her out for about a week or so now but can't build up the chutzpa to do it.
So my questions are:
Does anyone have any suggestions on how to overcome this fear? I've tried just tackling it and that has never worked.
What is the best way to ask a girl out?
Thanks.
2006-09-25 19:16:03 · 6 answers · asked by Jake in Indiana 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you just talk the whatever you want to say... but be careful of what you say... you might say things that are irritating to the girl... just be cautious, think possitive, you can do it.
2006-09-25 19:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by danieldenzel2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you really have a problem! I mean, girls always are attracted to boys with attitude, but there are cases when a shy one does the trick too. Maybe you should try to talk to her about something else, maybe about what is happening in the class you both do.. something like: " what did you though about... (something that you've just learned in class) -[she will answer or not]- and then you can say.."actually I just wanted to ask you if you would go out on a date with me" (and before you do this you should have planned something in advanced-like a movie, or a place to go) "we could go to . (name of the place) .." and that would be it.. If there was me i would give you A for trying.
2006-09-26 02:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha some of the answers ur friends gave u are not bs..."just be urself" is bs but "just do it" is not. if u wanna ask a girl out u cannot just go up and ask her also but u can just go up and strike a conversation with her. following up from there u can ask her for her email or number. then since u are super shy u could message or mail her to ask her out, that way if she rejects u, it wont be so hard for u to bear
2006-09-26 02:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by rulewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to ask a girl out is
TELLING HER YOUR FEELINGS AND BEING DIRECT THAN OVER FLOWERY !
Tell her you think she is your kind of girl and tell her your personality as well !! And tell her that you could make that couple!
Doesnt always work but you are atleast being honest to yourself !
2006-09-26 02:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by Beautiful Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it one step at a time.First ask her out for a cup of coffee.If she accepts ,take it from there.
2006-09-26 02:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by eva b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need laid bro
2006-09-26 02:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋