2006-09-25 18:29:22 · 16 answers · asked by sale dog 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on... it's the best. Cry it out.. feel the pain .. then come out of it and KNOW that there are PLENTY of other women out there. And take with you the lessons of the relationship to form you into a better person.
:)
2006-09-25 18:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn this sounds like my relationship so I can't really help cause I'm in the same rut. I know it's hard to let go of something your use to and comfortable with.The fear of being alone or the fear of that person being with someone else besides you. I guess you just have to tell yourself this is not where you want to be and mean it then leave or start seeing other people. Maybe someone will come along and help you forget or ease the tention. Eventually it will be over because for you to feel this way there must be something wrong.You will get tired though and when you start to see that you can do so much better and be so much happier by yourself or with someone new. Then you do just that.It will take time though cause 2 years is a good little while to be with someone. GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-26 01:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by temekarobinson81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man and let her know how you feel. 9 out of 10 she might be feeling the same way about you. Women have that sense when there man, is not feeling her because she sees the changes that you present and they are not the same things and feelings as when you were trying to get with her. So grab you scrotum sacks, nah i am joking, but the truth will set you free buddy and the only way you are going to learn how to be a man is to speak your mind. "We have been together for two years and I don't have the passion I once had for you. I don't want to go through this relationship pretending. I think for me, that it is best for us to not be together." And go from there. Notice I said what is best for you.
2006-09-26 01:37:50 · answer #3 · answered by Malik V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me as though you are in a habit of being in this relationship. Though it's going no where, it's still comfortable...it's what you and she know best. Some people don't embrace change readily. If you feel it is really over and she doesn't, I can see where there would be a conflict of interest. My advice would be to sit down with her, share your feelings and let her know that yes, the relationship is comfortable...it's part of your daily routine...but you need a break in your routine and it's time to move on and then do exactly that...move on.
2006-09-26 01:33:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're thinking about her feelings just quit whining and let go, no offense. You're gonna cause alot of hurt on both your sides if you keep up a relationship that from what you say is basically a charade. Letting go is hard, boy do I know that. It's just something, that comes with time. But if you keep this up your both going to be miserable. Apparently, you're just seeking something you both want, but you feel it's not there between the two of you. I don't know what she feels.
2006-09-26 01:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by one_sahara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what youre talking about....same situation a moths ago...Its gonna be hard at first. But its for the best, hang out with other people. You dont have to lose contact with her, but dont look for oportunities to see her. Just remember the good things about the time you spent together. And tell her, that its been wonderfull but its time to move on, and try new stuff.
2006-09-26 01:35:04 · answer #6 · answered by Happy hippie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to remain friends, have a long talk with her about how you thought the relationship was good, you want to meet other people, but you still want to be friends. Really talk about her good qualities, like sense of humor or friendliness, and how you really like that in a friend and a girl.
If you don't really want to be friends, tell her the same thing as above, but just avoid her. Hope it helps :)
2006-09-26 01:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the EXACT same situation, and as hard as it is, you just gotta let go. If you have reached your peak in the relationship yet you arent satisfied, then there's nothing else to do but move on to someone that will truly make u happy
2006-09-26 01:33:29 · answer #8 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what have you done...in trying to get, where it is, that you wanna go...sometimes people aren't sure what the other wants....so they hold back..try bringing it up...as to what your future goals are and what you wanted out of your relationship, that you haven't gotten. If all else fails...then you'll both be on the same page without any one person being the blame...
2006-09-26 01:36:37 · answer #9 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU BEEN TOGETHER FOR TWO YEARS. THEN YOU NEED TO BE HONEST WITH HER AND TELL THAT THINGS
ARE NOT WORKING OUT, BUT THE LONGER YOU PUT
OFF WHAT REALLY NEED TO BE DONE, THE HARDER
IT WILL BE TO LET GO. SHE DESERVE HONEST FROM
YOU IF NOTHING ELSE AFER 2 YEARS DONT YOU THINK.
2006-09-26 01:40:26 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋