i want to make a bit of twist to his notion that im trying to get him back as a rebound.. it's not true! he's very special to me eversince we broke up... 5yrs. ago. we've became good friends. and i'm staying for good.. what should i do?? i guess he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. he's not replying to my text messages..
2006-09-25 18:13:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we went out a couple of days ago and his gestures show that he still has feelings for me... it's really weird. i don't understand.
2006-09-25 18:40:59 · update #1
IF HE NOT RETURN YOUR CALL. TEXT. THEN HE HAS MADE
VERY CLEAR THAT HE DOES NOT WANT TO GET BACK WITH YOU, SO STOP HURTING YOUR SELF AND MOVE ON
AND FIND SOMEONE THAT WANT TO BE WITH YOU, PUT
YOUR INTERESTED TOWARD SOMEONE NEW.HE MOVE
ON YOU NEED TO DO THE SAME.
2006-09-25 18:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is your "ex" because he CHOSE to be your "ex". No ifs ands or buts, he went away, for whatever reason he chose. I hate to be so blunt, but it's really the cold hard facts of life, and you need to heed the words.
There is an old saying: "You can't re-knit an old cobweb". There is not a truer statement I have ever heard, trust me.
Been there and done that: I tried to get back together with my ex for over two years. It was wasted time and wasted grief. Looking back, the best thing I ever did was to let it go and move forward. My second wife and I have been very happily married for over seventeen years now, and the "ex" is just a very distant memory, as though it never happened in the first place. I think that's the best feeling of all.
I know that it's tough to let go, but that's what you must do in order to move forward. If you don't do that, you'll be locked in a jail of heartbreak that you'll never get out of, and that's not where you really want to be, is it? Remember the saying, "The only way out is through".
I'll recommend a book that put me in perspective when no one else could, it's titled "Letting Go: A 12-Week Personal Action Program to Overcome a Broken Heart", and it alone saved me from another year of heartache and despair, after months of therapy that never worked. You would do well to order it and read it, you'll be amazed at what it will do for you. You can order the book from any good bookstore.
I hope this helps, and I wish you the best. Just remember to look at the person in the mirror and tell the person that she's down, but she's not out, not by a long shot.
Good luck,
gdrumz
2006-09-26 01:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by gdrumz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will heal the pain.. and in time you will find someone better who wil love you and be there for you. and as for your ex.. seem he is moved on with his life and u should too.. why setttle for the * has been* boyfriend when u could find someone better? just hang in there.. do something u like and keep things off its mind..
:) good luck
jan Ella
2006-09-26 01:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by Andrea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds kind of insensitive to your feelings--sometimes we find the things we cant have as being more attractive then they really are--------remember all the reasons why you 2 broke up in the first place--that should keep you strong
2006-09-26 01:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him wanna be with you. All you can do is tell him how you feel and see if he's willing to give it another shot. If he isn't, then you need to respect that and be his friend and nothing more.
2006-09-26 01:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy says "No", it means "No." So move on. Forcing him to take you back won't do you any good. You'll only get hurt.
2006-09-26 01:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give him time to think.IF he does not text you back in a couple of weeks.Then Please try and go on with your life.I understand it will be hard but you will find a new guy.
2006-09-26 01:21:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby...that should tell you something...right!?
better try to get over him specially after 5 yrs! he obviously didnt put his life on a hold and neither should you!!
sorry....sad but true!
2006-09-26 01:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by darknightmare01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since nin is in the same situation why don't you two get together?
2006-09-26 01:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone goes through it at some point and its tough but its called LIKE IT OR NOT MOVE THE HELL ON
2006-09-26 01:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋