My best friend set me up with a guy I went out with for like 2 days last year. The first day was really great, then i didnt see him until the third day and things were all messed up. He follows me everywhere, he is pushy about always holding hands and being extremely close, he is always there!!! he is just making me crazy. He is in one of my classes and he gets me in trouble in it because he always wants to be all over me. And to make it even worse, he hardly knows me but thinks he loves me.
And he has bad breath.
2006-09-25 18:09:08 · 34 answers · asked by fired up 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him youre not interested in being anything more than friends, so back off!
2006-09-25 18:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to tell him that you do not like him anymore. Be considerate about it, but be very clear in your communication as well. Leave no room for doubt. Give him a jumbo pack of Tic Tacs as a parting gift (j/k ;-) ). Then just ignore him and he should leave you alone (or begin to cut off contact with you) within a couple of weeks. If that doesn't work, involve some authorities. Next time he starts getting you in trouble, speak with your prof about it privately. He sounds young and depressed, but he needs to learn that his behavior is unacceptable. Good luck!
2006-09-25 18:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have your very first stalker...........be careful. You need to tell him in the company of others that you want him to LEAVE YOU ALONE and that you have witnesses that will back you up. Tell you parents whats going on as they will beable to help you also, tell everyone that you can about this "nut job". I think that you need to talk to your co ordinater at school to let them know what's going on and that your not actively encourageing this boy. Failing all this, you need to take out a restraining order against him with the local police. Just be carful and dont be ANYWHERE alone under any circumstances.
2006-09-25 18:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the guy that you don't really like him & the way he is acting when with you are more annoying than a creep. Let him know that he's not really your type in a nice way. If the guy can't take "NO" for an answer, get your school principal or friends to talk to the guy if he don't get your message clear.
2006-09-25 18:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by CM C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to tell him in a nice way that your not interested with him and that you only liked him as a friend and not more than that. Then if he's still stalking you, you can always ask assistance from the nearest police station and have him arrested for disturbance.
Good Luck!
2006-09-25 18:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by Jowi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough call. You just have to hint to him that you're not interested. I had the same thing going on with a girl a couple of years ago. I just started ignoring her and she eventually left me alone and started bothering some other guy. You have to realize that this isn't going to stop unless you put a stop to it somehow. It's just the type of personality these people have-- they're clingy and too affectionate.
2006-09-25 18:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by Fish Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, hard as it may be on you and his fragile ego, this guy needs the direct approach. You'll just have to tell him how you feel. If he doesnt get the message, sadly, you may have to get mean by just telling him flat out that he's an obsessive possessive stalker with bad breath and to p*** off.
Good luck.
2006-09-25 18:17:19 · answer #7 · answered by tigerzntalons 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically what he is doing is stalking you, controling you. This is not love, it is not healthy and could wind up with you getting into more than just a little bit of trouble. TELL someone like your parents. Explain to them that you want NOTHING to do with this guy but he is attempting to take over your life.
2006-09-25 18:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be brave and honest now it's best for you both. Notify your teacher so that seating can be changed. Make sure your friends know ow you feel so they don't leave you alone if he approaches you. Tell your parents of his actions and listen to thier advice. They have your best interest in mind.
2006-09-25 18:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by K O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yikes, seem like you got an obessive guy in your hand... well best thing to do is dear... talk to him and ask him to give u some space ... time to breath.... if u are dating someone and u dont have these *spaces*.. half of the time it wont work out.. everyone needs spaces. u guys are not even married and u shouldt even feel this way hehe..
so if he continues to do this.. call it off.. and find someone else.
:)
2006-09-25 18:13:01 · answer #10 · answered by Andrea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, be upfront with him. Tell him you had a nice time the first date, but you don't feel any chemistry. Second, when its just the two of you, you might wanna bring it to his attention that his breath is less than fresh
2006-09-25 18:13:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋