i have been with my girl for 2 years and everything is ok so far, but i dont feel she loves me like she said she does. She is always pushing me off her if i kiss her like more then 2 times, she starts getting mad at me for no reson. i mean i love her so much but i really dont feel that she feels the same. im having a baby with her, and i was so so happy i was dancing around, and she was happy to....wut changed? now she is mad most of the time, we are not together cuz we work the same hours, so we can move, and when we get home she wants to sleep, and dont want me on her or holding her sometimes? i never cheated on her, never would , and i try to do everything in my power for her, and the baby? i need some advice...
2006-09-25
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asked by
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First of all, congratulations for the baby!!
Anyway ... when a woman is pregnant she gets tired really easy, unavoidable mood swings ... that explains why she's easily agitated. just be there for her, try to understand that she's going through a tough time. don't get upset when she gets annoyed when u kiss her or try to hold her.
Here's some helpful sites:
http://www.webmd.com/content/pages/3/3608_1074.htm
http://www.principalhealthnews.com/topic/pregexhaustion
http://www.americanpregnancy.org/pregnancyhealth/moodswings.html
Best of luck ...
2006-09-25 18:30:02
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answered by Tartlettes 4
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Pregnant women often experience serious mood swings. After the baby is born, sometimes the mood swings continue. If you think it may be medical, get her to a physician. If you think it may be that she's changing, emotionally, mentally, then perhaps some counseling might help. You need to talk to some of your older friends and get them to meet and talk with her, and get their opinion. It sounds like you are fairly young. While I hope that things work out for the best, you might want to look at having a mediated divorce, if she continues this behavior, and counseling and therapy are not an option. You can't change people. If the baby is ever endangered, get the kid to a safe place, and go to the police. Harsh options, but you need to be prepared for the best and worst case scenarios.
2006-09-25 18:13:11
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answered by Sad-Dad 3
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She's going through some hormone changes right now. If she loved you enough to have your baby then she loves you now. Pregnancy tires you out and plays on your emotions. One minute your up the next minute your down. Your doing the right thing by wanting and doing the best you can for her and your baby. Just try to hang on while she is pregnant. Give her some space right now and try to be understanding. She'll come around.
2006-09-25 18:15:50
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answered by Just me 4
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Keep being nice to her and give her the space that she needs for time beeing, make sure to compliment her even for the small things. Talk less, kiss less. She will get thru this without major dammage to the relationship if you try to understand how stressfull it is to cary a baby with changing hormons.
2006-09-25 18:22:50
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answered by Anonymous
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True love can never be measured by the amounts of hugs and kissess thrown to you by your wife or girlfriend. Try to be sensitive on the messages that your girl might be sending to you. Perhaps she also finds difficulty in expressing her feelings especially since she is pregnant. Pregnant women can be very emotional since they are undergoing rapid and various changes in their physical make-up. Try to be patient with her and talk to her about your concern. Do not accuse her of loving you less just because... Sometimes, love means showing the other person how much you love them even though you feel less loved yourself. Try it believe me it works.
2006-09-25 18:14:13
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answered by gvpocon 1
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Well if she is pregnant women get irritable easy during pregancay and I'm sure she is feeling at her worst just tell her everyday how beautiful she is back off and let her come to you when she has the baby she will feel old self again
2006-09-25 18:08:41
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answered by hopeluv 2
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If she is pregnant she probably feels terrible. My husband says when I was pregnant I was a ***** and I don't remember being that way. Your hormones are crazy and you are uncomfortable and feel large and sometimes just don't want anyone around. Try to be patient with her. Maybe some talking will help.
2006-09-25 18:07:29
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answered by goodbye 7
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most likely it's just the pregancy, her body is changing, she probably doesn't feel as attractive... just don't stop being loving and supportive, that will only make it worse.. oh and just a lil hint.. be prepared for the 3 month after.. there's that lovely thing called post-partum depression to watch out for..doesn't affect everyone, but just be forewarned..
2006-09-25 18:25:21
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answered by lil_mama0625 1
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she is so lucky girl to be loved by you, but sometimes she feel tired from job and need fresh air to relax, so don't kiss her so much
2006-09-25 18:10:08
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answered by Neighbour 5
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you are having a baby with her hormones, you think its bad now, wait til she gets you into the delivery room.
2006-09-25 18:08:52
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answered by D M 2
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