hey guys u temme... is true or is it me...?
the thing is that im very emotional when its realted to this guy... hes supposed to be my very very good friend... in the card n letter i gave him i mentioned how much ill miss him when he leaves (he went to london for studies lik 2 weeks ago) and i mailed him 2wice too.. i expected a reply from him... he dint come online for long cuz of no internet connection... but yesterday when he came online i was excited that he would pour out his heart and tell me atleast some of his experience so far... but he DID NOT.. he behaved normally and showed no signs of appreciation of my mail or of him missing me.... i really cant take any more of this... according to other friends hes not worth it.. but my heart says tht hes behaving like this due to him yet adjusting... i believe in others tht if this guy liked me he wouldve contacted me any how or wouldve replied cuz we were always on text msgsing till he left for a good 2 months.. it hurts!! :(
2006-09-25 17:56:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may take some time to adjust.Stop bothering him everyday on how much you miss him.Instead let him realise that even he is missimg you.If you dont get any positive vibes from him for long,I suggest move ahead with your life.
All the best.
2006-09-25 19:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me like you only have a few options. You can send him an email and let him know he hurt your feelings and see what kind of response you get. Or, you can forget about it and keep making excuses for his actions. You have no idea why he did not respond in the same manner that you had hoped he would.
You say you are overly emotional, so maybe you read more into the friendship than what there was really was. I think you should sit back and take a long hard look into the past few months and try to determine if it was anyhting more than friendship. It might also be wise to try counceling regarding your emotional state of mind.
Anyhow, I wish you the best.
2006-09-25 18:14:23 · answer #2 · answered by SissyK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its you. You describe yourself as "...very emotional", about this guy. Maybe you're expecting more than he is. Don't forget, there is a significant time difference between the US and England. Pouring your heart out and describing adventures in London are two different things, which do you really want?
Give it some time. Wait until he returns before making a big decision. He maybe be overjoyed to see you!
2006-09-25 18:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by jack w 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You women r so ironic and a flawed species. Yall want drama and the element of the unknown in your life, but yall just don't know it. You dont want that nice guy that will tend to your every little need, so we act like we don't care. If we become the douche bag nice guy, we get too predictable and predictable is boring. And boring sucks. So stop worrying about and start playing the game. Just be patient and wait for him to contact u and when he does, be real short with him and turn the table on his ***. It'll be hard, but worth it believe me.
2006-09-25 18:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 17:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by hyre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just doesn't know what to say. I've found that everytime someone moves from the country I stop talking to them or I just can't find many things to tell them because before the move we would maybe talk crap, a lot of the stuff we said would consist of 'i'm eating french fries' or soemthing of that sort. After someone moves saying those types of things seems stupid becuase its not really important.
2006-09-25 18:07:17 · answer #6 · answered by c_mitu89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, he is in a strange place, costs are high he is probably very busy getting organized, you are seeing a different picture, you are in the comforts of your home nothing has changed, it will all work out you'll see!
2006-09-25 18:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has been too busy and could not do what you expect, take the time and be patient, he will understand how much you care about him after he settle down
2006-09-25 18:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I had similar experience. I hate to say this but I think he really does not care about you. If he cares, he would have contacted you without you contacting him first.
Cheers.
2006-09-25 18:09:44 · answer #9 · answered by angessaqua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u all girls have no other activity than love. Just Let him concentrate in his studies or career. Dont disturb him.
2006-09-25 18:14:01 · answer #10 · answered by Harshal M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋