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2006-09-25 17:41:31 · 8 answers · asked by New York 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
Arrests make many opportunities for a date and marriage to a cop. The cop falling in love with a felon.
2006-09-25 18:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by FRAGINAL, JTM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been married to a police officer. my father was one. i myself have been a correctional officer so have known quite a few deputies. I have also been a police disptacher(retired from) so therefore again have known quite a number of police officers. All I can say is that if you date one or marry one, you have to be very strong. Most females out there love men in uniform, does not have to be military, police is the same. Their lives are in danger every single day. There are all kinds, and from working with them for many years, they pretty much all play. It is very easy for them as women, all ages, throw themselves at them. Some are faithful, some are not. You need to remember their lives, every single day, every single hour/minute is a question mark. I know because I was a police dispatcher, their job is not easy. So if someone wants to marry one, be patient, loving, caring, and always there. He/she might not come home tonight. Really think about it. Most cops I know, never get married, or have been married many times. Then again I know a lot of older officers who have been married many, many years to the same person, and love, respect each other until the last(does not mean they are not fooling around, and I know a lot of them who were doing just that and still stay married, maybe the wife wants the retirement after so many years of worry and love for that man! others just keep marrying many times over and it never seems to work, does not mean they are a bad person, just means they are a cop and life is not easy!! sorry to burst anyone's balloon regarding a relationship with a cop. but reality sucks, and a lot of them use drugs. as i say i worked in law enforcement for many years. r
2006-09-25 19:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by mamangertrude 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was nice to ate him but after a while it got that there was certain places we could not go as he was KNOWN as a cop and there would always be an idiot that would come up and complain etc...mind you funny story was a guy very drunk came over to him and offered him some drugs..................I was stunned to say the least, he just said nope thanks and we moved on and away from him.................he said that he was not going to arrest him as he would spend the next day filling out paperwork and we only had the weekend to spend together......................to be honest it got old with the hours pretty quickly as well.
We met at a club where he pretended to be in another job as no one would talk to him f he had told the truth, but he told me the next day when he called.
2006-09-25 18:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by candy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband, who is a police officer, at church. That is the only way I would recommend that because many of them are not honest or law-abiding, believe it or not. (Depending on where you're from, of course.) Many do it becuase it's a steady job with good benefits, not to be a superhero.
Typically, police officers endure a lot of stress, especially if they see trauma, which if not dealt with, compounds to even more stress, which is why you hear of police officers freaking out and either shooting their spouses or whatever.
Fortunately I can honestly say that my husband is amazingly great at dealing with stress, sharing his feelings (which is rare with any men), but he's not typical. Men he works with flirt with other women, swear, don't care about the law, etc. He is pretty much a loner among them. So if you meet one and he doesn't hang out with the guys, then he's probably one of the good ones.
Hope that helps!
P.S. I love him very much, but it has nothing to do with his occupation - it's who a person is, not what they do, that matters!
2006-09-25 19:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Romey 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They are complete PIGS, thats how they get there name, they are so sweet to you because they feel guilty because they cheat ALL the time, no matter how good and nice you are and what you do for tem in bed. THEY ALWAYS CHEAT!!! with girls they work with, with nurses they meet and those girls w ho say "oh Officer I will do anything to get out of a ticket" I have dated a few, learned my lesson and never will again. They tend to only marry the dowdy girls, who will sit at home and have their babies, while they are out dating on the side. Also when he tells you he has a Paid duty (overtime, not sure if its called the same thing in the US, it usually means they are out dating......
2006-09-25 22:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by WORD!!! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is the same as dating any other man. They are often more honest, law abiding and protective. I've got a very good one right now. He's also a soldier. We are very happy.
2006-09-25 18:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by frogspeaceflower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont be attentive to the type you may bypass approximately assembly one. you may bake cookies and take them down on your interior of sight police station. in case you come across one ask if has a brother and hook this sister up!
2016-10-17 23:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's idiotic to date one . I wouldn't do it again .
2006-09-25 17:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by missmayzie 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋