Last year I went out with a girl, but we broke up recently. We're still friends but I don't want our relationship to be quite as intimate. But nobody is taking her place and it's killing me because I'm thinking of her all the time. I don't know whether it's become a post-relationship breakup mentality or whether I'm still obsessed over her even though we both wanted just friendship at the end.
2006-09-25 17:04:39 · 16 answers · asked by ckurland 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It takes time to get over somone after a breakup and just because you are thinking of her like crazy dont think for one second she is not thinking of you. If you had a good relationship maybe you guys should be together and try to work out the reason you broke up. If its a problem you cant seem to work out I suggest you keep your mind occupied with other things like hanging out with your friends, taking small trips, doing something for yourself, etc. etc.
2006-09-25 17:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by Bantuknots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww ok here is the deal i think you still like Her but since you are trying not too you like her more and more i know it sounds lk crap but you might love Her , and you dont want not to love then to never love at all. If u cant get her Of your mind you probably still miss her but that doesnt me go ask her out as soon as possible take It about a week to get your mind cleared, and a good relationship always starts with a good friendship you and her will probably go out in the end , i know how you feel when you want to get someone out of your head .every little thing reminds you of that person and what they have said to you in the past. just make sure you treat her with respect (sounds stupid)
but u should...............I will pray for you
2006-09-26 10:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh the vagaries of love. Why do the stars go on shining.....only time will heal your wounds buddy. If it gets real bad....try smoking some pot....just don't get caught. Don't start drinking....you could hurt yourself. If you got her back...it wouldn't be the same...by now the memories or her and how it was has exploded to the point that she could never live up to them. You are in no shape to start a new relationship now anyways Be comforted in the fact that most people go through this at some time in their lives. Try staying up for three or four days in a row playing video games....seriously that might help.
2006-09-25 17:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by eantaelor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I think it is awesome you both ended on good terms however you need to take some time away from her and concentrate on yourself. Get out and about with friends. You may not be ready to start dating however getting out will help you feel better and hey you never know you may end up meeting someone. I know for my self when I really care about someone I need to take some time to get them out of my system and talk to them when I feel ready cause it is hard to be friends with sooo many feeling and thoughts. Good Luck
2006-09-25 17:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by Lissette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. Sucks, but normal. Once you have a change in your own life - something else to focus your attention on - you'll be able to start moving on. But you have to be willing to move on, and you also have to give yourself a break for being unable to get her out of your mind. This just happened recently, right? Give yourself time to figure out what you want to do before you jump right into something else.
Good luck.
2006-09-25 17:13:19 · answer #5 · answered by smallweed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can`t get someone out of your mind,they`re probably supposed to be there.
If two past lovers can remain friends, either they never were in love or they still are
2006-09-25 17:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by Your best friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid her for awhile. I've been through this myself the only way you can forget about her is to not hang-out with her even if its just as friends
2006-09-25 17:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by undecided_guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and get laid by the girl you went out with before her. It helps to sort of erase her. It works
2006-09-25 17:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now i feel the same exact way let me guess everytime you close your eyes you thinck of here she is in your dreams when you see here you just want to hug hold and kiss here and when you see here with some one else it breaks your heart man that feels bad i know i feel you
2006-09-25 17:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there. I hate it . Start listening to different music. Start talking to other people. Go to the mall and just walk around aimlessly. Give it another two weeks. I finally got over that skank. You can too........................................ Got any beer in the fridge?......... :)
2006-09-25 17:07:34 · answer #10 · answered by rasckal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋