Ok i REALLY like his guy...and i know he likes me because he told me..but he also likes this other girl. but today i was looking on her myspace and i saw a blog were she said she didnt like him! it made me so happy i couldnt stop smiling...i know this might upset him ...but i cant help myself from being so happy...am i a bad person?
2006-09-25 16:53:29 · 48 answers · asked by ohdarliingletgo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No your not a bad person. There is nothing wrong with being happy over something that you have no control over. Its not like you made this girl not like the guy. She just doesnt have feelings for him. And there is nothing wrong with being happy about her feelings! At least she knows what she wants...this guy however needs to make up his damn mind.
2006-09-25 16:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand why you'd jump 4 joy, so would I, it's such a big relief. the man that I wanna be with, I work with him, known him 4 a year now and last winter, think Febuary me, him and this other guy Alex that we work with were outside. sum1 called him. at the end of the convo he said I love you. I said smiled and said was that your g/f and he smiled like a smerk and said no that was my mother. then Alex( a guy) asked Dan if he does have a g/f and he said funny u should ask that. he said that he asked one of my friend out, Christina( we work with her). he said it wasn't like a real date but that they were going to hang out or something 2 that effect. after all that I went to the food court and she was sitting down. I told her that I heard Dan and her were gonna go out, I asked if she liked him and she said of course and I said but more than a friend and she said no jus as friends. I said you need to tell Dan that( first of all I love him and don't wanna see him get hurt and I don't want her 2 lead him on) also she is from Poland and she was going back 4 the summer and then she decided that she was gonna go 2 college there 2 so I wanted her 2 tell Dan that. but again I was relieved that he wasn't gonna become her boyfriend and go out and I'd have 2 c it and all. I still love Dan and 4 Christmas I am going 2 give him a ticket 2 a hockey game, real good seats, 1st row near the goal. I feel we will be together someday and I'm jus happy 2 be around him, I jus hope in the meantime someone else doesn't scoop him up but I can't think about that right now even though I am going 2 ask my friend Rich at work 2 ask Dan if he likes anyone right now.
good luck and don't feel bad, you're human, thats exactally how u should feel, if you didn't feel that way then you probably didn't like him that much int he first place.
peace
2006-09-25 17:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by dabluschmosprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, u r not a bad person. U r not happy it will upset him, u r happy she doesn't like him. THis is a possitive thing and u should be happy about it! This is good news for u! Now if u were happy this would hurt him, then that would b another story, but that's not the case. I think many other people would react the same way u did.
2006-09-25 16:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by lizizle101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not. You are just being yourself. Everyone who feels the same way as you do will feel happy about that because that for sure is a chance to get the attention of that man.
But you should not be the one to tell him that she doesn't like him at all. Let him discover it himself or let that girl tell him all about it. In that way, you will not be implicated.
I'm sure that if he likes you, once he realizes that he is rejected by that woman, he will turn to you.
But wait! It's also possible that he likes you more and that he will not be bothered by that girl's dislike for him. And you will know that in the future for sure. Whatever it is, just continue loving him and for all you know, you will just see yourself in his arms, someday, somehow, when Destiny does his share in making your lovelife great. But if he is not the one meant for you, don't feel disheartened for Destiny will bring to your path the one you truly deserve and who deserves you. All the best.
2006-09-25 17:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In no way are you a bad person. Gloat a little while, revel in your good fortune, than go and get him!. It sounds like a win , win proposition for you both. Also tell him your a one man woman, and you expect the same consideration from him.
2006-09-25 16:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by stevensings20032001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u luke him rite? well u cant help tht. tell him he might want 2 check out this other gurls my space page. u like him he likes u he looks @ my space page hez sade needz sholder 2 cry on u stanting rite bside him 4 him 2 turn 2 just dont let him no tht u r happy she dosent like him bac! tht would b a true desaster 4 u & him & tha other gurl!! big mess now we dont want tht do we?
2006-09-25 17:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our feelings don't make us bad . Your actions are the true test . If you know the other girl is out of the picture,then feel free to step in.
2006-09-25 16:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only bad if you tell him what you know.
Let someone else tell him or let him find out for himself.
But think about this....I would have wanted him to make a decision between me & the other girl because he liked me more....not because she didn't like him.
2006-09-25 16:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not a bad person. its a natural human reaction to feel happy. i've been there. dont be the one to bring it to his attention, just let him find out on his own. dont try to start something right away, let him take his time and he'll come to you
good luck
boys are always tricky
2006-09-25 16:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by fuchi fuchi fea fea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't make you a bad person. You were just happy for yourself. Best of luck.
2006-09-25 16:57:54 · answer #10 · answered by JMidd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋