My boyfriend likes calling me names like b**tch when we are having relations. He states it just turns him on. Is this respectful? If I were his wife, is this something acceptable. he tells me to grow up. In some ways it is fun,but then I wonder is it a lost of respect.
2006-09-25 16:41:33 · 18 answers · asked by victory 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would think its a turn on...i would love that
2006-09-25 16:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by cutie7191 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, he isn't respecting you at all!!! If you have stated that you don't feel comfortable with that talk, he should have stopped no matter how much it may turn him on.
Maybe one of his fantasies is to be with a ***** or prostitute, stripper or porno star, but you are not that and how dare he practice and fantasize about others when he is with you!!
IF he isn't making love to you(which sorry! but he isn't) then there is no reason for you to be intimate with him any longer! cut him cold turkey!
2006-09-25 16:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by chula1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if he watches too many porns! Everyone has their fetishes, I do, but if it bothers you and he loves you he should respect that. Try calling him names and see how he reacts(not real bad like mf or ba...rd, we get called a b...h everyday like it's a bad thing) if he reacts with "nonanger" then he probably doesn't mean it personally when he says it to you.
2006-09-25 17:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by Liome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may,as you're, evaluate the undeniable fact that your Father is going by a coarse time suitable now. Why do no longer you and your sister take a blanket and a pillow and mattress down interior the residing room till issues get better to your Father?
2016-10-17 23:49:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends on how you feel. If you think its disrespectful then it is but if your cool with it then its not okay.
Personaly I don't mind it but if it bothers you then you need to tell him to stop. If his response is grow up then hes an a$$hole and you need to move on to someone who respects your feelingsQ!
2006-09-25 16:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, what stays in the bedroom should stay in the bedroom (or wherever else you do it) But if he just starts calling you out your name outside of that, at home, public, around friends, hes disrespectin you.
2006-09-25 16:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,if it make's you feel un-comfortable tell him.It's got nothing to do with grow-n up.Some people relay like this stuff.If you don't,stop it now.You stay the way you want to be.Don't think you have to change your way's for any-one else.When the chip's are down...it's you,you have to live with.Stay your way...not his.
2006-09-25 16:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alls fair and o.k in bedroom dirty talk. If it REALLY bothers you, the next time he gets naughty mouthed just reply "come on PENCIL PRICK do me." When he looks a you in shock and instantly loses his woody just look at him blankly and say "what ?, come on, grow up."
2006-09-25 16:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um I don't know what to say I think thats a little werid I think but I don't think It's a sign of direspect but mabye it is so why don't you tell him that you r friend dosen't like it so counld you stop!!!!
2006-09-25 16:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by Skylar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes watching too much porn. there is a time and place for everything. if it bothers you, he shouldnt be doing it. but sometimes, different things are just fun. imagining you as his dirty girl might be hot to him. sometimes i like it sweet and everything, other times i like my hair pulled and being bent over. just go with what is right for both of you.
2006-09-25 16:50:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people say things in the heat of the moment, they;re just words. Now if he's saying these things and they make you feel uncomfortable, then that's when he needs to take your feeling into consideration and stop.
2006-09-25 16:48:24 · answer #11 · answered by qtee425 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋