I found out that we were spotted by his ex of 4 years ago in March 06. I didnt know that we had been seen together by her until recently. Anyway, not long after the "spotting" he decides that he wanted to break up with me. We at that time decided to stay friends. He took the majority of his belongings. He still had keys. Would come over to sleep. and I do mean sleep. As time moved on one day he called me from a strange cell #. When I asked who's phone he was using he got irate with me. Two days later I called the # and heard "This is Nancy leave a message". At that point I realized that Nancy was the woman who he only had worked for some years prior. I never thought to ask whether there was more to their work relationship prior to her voice mail id. Needless to say we got back together. Much later on I realize that he has contact with her she is calling crying saying ugly things about me. She got a hold of his cell and replaced his VM answer to her own voice so I'd know.
2006-09-25 16:40:01 · 10 answers · asked by koolkaw 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
secrest and decption are a sure fire way to destroy a relationship. and when he got angry with you questioning him, it is normally a sign that he is lying bout something and doesnt want you to know. its obviously bugging you, so i suggest you talk to him. get some answers. the key to a healthy relationship is communication. dont keep your investigation into his past private any longer.
2006-09-25 16:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is bringing all this drama into y'all relationship. It is not worth all the stress. Let him go. He probably messed with his ex again too, but you would not have known. He broke up with you to be free to screw Nancy. When he realized she wasn't all that, he wanted to come back to you. He got it like that? Apparently so, you foolishly keep hanging on to him like he's the best you can do. Now look what you going through. Dump that loser. He's still contacting her alright. That's why she calling him upset and crying. She got a hold of his cell...ummmm, how did that happen? Maybe she replaced his message while he was passed out after having wild sex with her. Sorry. Wake up, precious. This guy is no good.
2006-09-25 23:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by Christa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o man, you need to get out of this. I don't know how he's reacting to all of this, but the fact that he broke up after he saw her and now is back. I don't know how he acts around you, but this lil notion you gave us, he's not in it because of love. I would leave well enough along and go on with your life. You can't put up with all this.
2006-09-25 23:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with your guy and ask him face to face. If he even fidgits then walk away from it. If he gets super angry, then walk away. Only if he tries to calm you down then you should trust him. It's all up to you...good luck
2006-09-25 23:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by Lita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy is playing games. Don't let him string you along while he is also spending time with his ex. and get rid of this cheater.
2006-09-25 23:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by kamsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, the best advise I can give you is.... dump that little boy and find a MAN.
2006-09-25 23:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um dude if hes doing this still behind your back he will do it when you are married. get out now while you still can.
2006-09-25 23:43:40 · answer #7 · answered by dzjoni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree..... Good grief how much more do you need to see
2006-09-25 23:43:55 · answer #8 · answered by Air C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have to draw you a diagram,Hon?
2006-09-25 23:42:34 · answer #9 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him
2006-09-25 23:42:08 · answer #10 · answered by labonitameli 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋