My bf broke up with me about 2 weeks ago. In the 1st week I called him a lot, trying to get him back. It didn't work. He wouldn't even pick up his phone. So in the 2nd week, I stopped calling him and stopped going on aim, just let myself disappear for about 5 days. And then 3 days ago I went online. He started talking to me and being nice to me instead of just ignoring me. And he set his status on facebook as "Rich is never going to get over it; Rich is never going to be happy again; Rich is missing her." But just now when I went online and asked him"u know, if u r missing her, why don't you give her a call". He said he didn't know i was reading his stuff on facebook and deleted them immediately. I don't get it. Why did he delete them?Does he want me back or not? He's been sending me all these mixed signals. Some ppl just tell me to move on. But the thing is, I love him. I want him back. Pls tell me how I can do that(continue to play cool?) and maybe help analyze what he's thinking.
2006-09-25 16:37:22 · 8 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Play cool the way he is playing. How do you know it did not take 2 weeks for him --not nice---but guys--to get "_orny"
So, if you really want to know if he loves u or not cut it out when u get back together----say u decided to be celibate or joined some---religion--or on "your period". If he is still regularly dating after at least 3 to 4 weeks, he is probably on the level.
2006-09-25 17:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by kay w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be, your ex-boyfriend is giving himself enough time to weigh things over between you. He may still love you but he may be doing some soul-searching escapades at the moment to be sure that when he comes back to you, your relationship will never fail again.
He is buying time so give it to him. Many people say that absence makes the heart grow fonder. Use this maxim to test his love for you. Refrain from giving him a call or don't let him know that you are reading his messages online. Be invisible to him these days. I'm sure that when he is done with his soul-searching scheme, you will know about it and it will be him tthat will make the first move of letting you know about his feelings.
Right now, just relax and don't feel depressed about the situation. The odds are working to your advantage the way I look at it. Remember, true love never dies... so, if he loves you truly, he will never let you go. All the best.
2006-09-25 23:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, I think I've answered thi before. You went about it wronng by callin him all the time. You need to act like you don't care and you are moving on with your life. Call him once in a while, don't pick up when he calls or always go running when he contacts you. Right now, it doesn't seem like he wants you back, he just wants to get a reaction out of you and you are giving him what he wants. You have to play it cool and live your life, if it's meant to be, he will be back.
2006-09-25 23:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if he broke up with you he probably tryin to see if he can find someone better than you,he might have been thinkin bout gettin back wit you but then someone else came into the picture.but when that person leaves he'll be back on your team again.i've recently been thru something similar.lets do this,lets not wait for them to want us back and realize we control our destiny not these guys,the love may be there but is it real?move on,cause if he was thinkin bout you he would be there now.dont keep people around who r a waste of time!!!
2006-09-25 23:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by nova44307 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one likes to feel like they are being stalked or spied on. Plus, maybe he posted that to find some new girl to feel sorry for him. Just chill out and leave him alone for a while to sort out his feelings. You are being too clingy.
2006-09-25 23:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him face to face n ask him if he still likes u or not, be upfront with him n stop tip toein around with this. find out if he likes u or not. n if he really doesnt like u there us always other guys out there like me, im awsome
2006-09-25 23:41:45 · answer #6 · answered by snooppoopaloop69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit him down and have a good talk with him about everything going on... and let everything out!! tell each other everything i mean EVERYTHING thats on your mind...
and then you'll see where you guys are going
2006-09-25 23:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
play hard to get
2006-09-25 23:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by labonitameli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋