Do you think it is true that if your boyfriend or girlfriend is always suspious about you cheating or constantly accusing you of cheating that they are the ones who are actually cheating>?
2006-09-25 16:32:06 · 27 answers · asked by ladylunamina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh yeah . They usually feel guilty.The only reason someone wants to know where you are at all times, who you'll be with and what time you will return is so they don't run into you while they are cheating!
2006-09-25 16:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by kamsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this can be true, but, sometimes it is just a case of insecurity. Either way, you should set your b/f down, talk to him and let him know that you are not cheating on him. ( I assume that you are not) Let him know how it makes you feel when he accuses you of cheating. Trust is a major factor in a relationship and if you do not have trust, this relationship will probably not last.
Good Luck,
Dee
2006-09-25 23:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
on certain occasions it can be true. On the other hand, they might just be someone who was cheated on in the past and has a hard time trusting people 100%. Either way it presents a problem, b/c you can't be with someone who cheats on you, and you can't be with someone who doesn't trust you and is making you pay for other people's mistakes. Think long and hard about remaining in this relationship.
2006-09-25 23:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by qtee425 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be true. Or perhaps they have been cheated on in the past and think you will cheat and by accusing you, it makes it easier for them if you do cheat.
2006-09-25 23:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by marriedmaleintn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, yes. This is known as "projecting" and tends to lead to a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you don't trust yourself not to cheat, then why would you trust your significant other not to? It's all goes back to one thing: insecurity. This is a huge reason why people cheat in the first place.
2006-09-25 23:34:59 · answer #5 · answered by yumyum 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it would be a logical assumption, but not always true. my hubby was suspicious for awhile, but i never got any inkling that he may be cheating, just because he's always always always been a family man, in love with me and me alone, and i've seen evidence of this. i believe he was just insecure for how many odd reasons over the years, which is what fueled his suspicion, and i was not always openly affectionate with him. it can be caused by so many different factors, i wouldn't just jump to that conclusion. hope this helped ya!!
2006-09-25 23:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by vrandolph62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times that's the case. But sometimes, a few come along who are just very self doubting and know they got a good thing and dont wanna lose it.
2006-09-25 23:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by Jaded Heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible, but normally it's that they have been cheated on in the past by someone else..and fear that happening to them again.
2006-09-25 23:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just indicative of very low self esteem. Get a new boyfriend, that garbage is useless.
2006-09-25 23:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by Rckets 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A grain of truth, but a lot depends on the person
2006-09-25 23:33:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋