ok not to sound like i have an ego, but i am hot. 5'10", 155 pounds, brown hair almost down to my shoulders, nice tan. muscles, not too big, but enough so im not skinny. im not gay, i like the ladies, but why are so many gay guys attracted to me? is there something i can do to throw them off? like maybe where a sign that says girls only?
2006-09-25 16:29:45 · 21 answers · asked by maxtrolle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be nice, straightforward and tell them...or ask them why you attract them.
2006-09-25 16:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many gay men like other gay men, but there are numerous gay guys that like hot, straight men. You have to remember that many gay guys are basically women in men's bodies from their point of view. They were born feminine in gender (mentality/ sexual preference), but not in sex (physical private parts). I am an attractive woman, and I have been hit on by lesbian and bisexual women so I know how you feel. All you can do is tell those men you are only interested in women. Or tell unwanted pursuers that you are taken--that you're married to a good, beautiful woman.
2006-09-25 16:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I are pretty attractive and sometimes he gets hit on by guys or they will check him out. He is not gay by any means. But it's funny for me to see a guy checking him out because he gets all freaked out and doesn't like it. One time a guy was looking our way and we were disagreeing about whether he was checking me or him out. hah. so it's kind of funny. Who cares if guys check you out. Give them mean looks or ignore them. Ask your friends that are girls if they will act like your gf when you notice a gay guy checking you out. Problem solved. Hope it works! Otherwise you could always get surgery done to look like Michael Jackson. But you might have little kids tagging along all day.
2006-09-25 16:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are fighting a losing battle of denial. So in this case, it's all curse since you are clearly gay AND in the closet.
2006-09-25 16:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by Rckets 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many times when a guy is so into his apperence, it comes off as either gay or conceited.
2006-09-25 16:33:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way out : Go with your hot girl. Gays will stay away from you.
2006-09-25 16:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be thankfully some people are attracted to you whether they are gay or ladies. Some people are not as lucky as you are.
2006-09-25 16:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by say_what!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gay guys are just like women, they know what an attractive guy is, and you do sound pretty attractive.
2006-09-25 16:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress untidily
2006-09-25 16:33:46 · answer #9 · answered by Tony C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must give a gay vibe somehow. Ask one of your female friends.
2006-09-25 16:31:29 · answer #10 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋