Does it annoy you when you see someone who you have seen give advice about getting an abortion (how to go about getting one) giving someone parental advice?
Just asking.
2006-09-25 16:10:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Yes, it does annoy me. I have seen what you are talking about. One minute you see someone telling a teenage girl that it's ok to have an abortion, and how to go about getting help doing it. Then the next minute you see the same person giving someone advice about pregnancy or parenting.
People who think it's ok to kill babies should not be giving advice to pg women or moms.
2006-09-25 16:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by smiles2u 2 · 5⤊ 6⤋
I am pro-choice and a proud parent. I looked into all of my options when I was raped at 18 years old. I consulted an abortion clinic and an adoption office. I listened to everything that was told to me and I'll give the same information to any that ask. This is for people who have questions and if I happen to know the answer, no matter what the question, then I will post. Just because I know something about abortion doesn't mean that I've had one, either. I'm a well educated mother and feel like I should be allowed to answer any questions that know the answer to and I will continue to do so because that's why this site exists. Everyone has their opinion, though, and you are entitled to yours and I, mine.
2006-09-26 01:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by a1dermommy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't bother me at all.
you can be pro-choice and still love and want children. There are no absolutes with life. I work in health care. I know about abortions, and I also know about babies, pregnancy, and children.
You cannot possibly know the pain a person goes through when making the decision to have an abortion. It isn't a decision a person enters into lightly. And it doesn't mean that person doesn't deserve children later. you cannot possible know or understand another persons reasoning until you've walked in her shoes.
I work in labor and delivery for four years. 3 babies I've delivered are dead now, beaten so severely that they died. 3 more have been beaten, shaken, and burned and will never fuction any moreso than they do right now. One little girl was held down by her mother while her mom's boyfriend brutally raped her. She had a hysterectomy. She's 4. Would these babies have been better off if their ignorant parents had made the choice to not have them? I can't help but think so.
2006-09-25 23:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by trivial 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
do you realize how ignorant you sound? are you trying to say anyone who supports abortion or has had one could never be a good parent??
that is absurd. i know a lot of great people who have had abortions (me included), and i know they would make, or already are, great parents and i would relish their advice.
take a look at yourself. i wouldn't want advice from someone who is obviously so narrow minded and stuck up that they can't even tell when they sound like an idiot.
you, my friend, are what is annoying
2006-09-25 23:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by prettyhate 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Because some one is pro-choice doesn't make them pro-abortion. If someone has a question as to where to go to get an abortion, I'll tell them go the Planned Parenthood or their pregnancy help center. I am pro-choice. I would never have an abortion but I think it's a person's right to choose. I will also give prenatal advice because I've been pregnant and I know about those things. I will answer questions to the best of my knowledge, regardless of the person asking. I have a question to ask--how do the two relate? Did you mean people to ask about where to get an abortion then giving someone prenatal advice or just someone who answers two questions?
2006-09-25 23:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by .vato. 6 · 3⤊ 5⤋
i think people who know about abortions are probably best to give parenting advice. a person realizing they aren't ready to be a parent is a better parent than someone who just had the baby because they made a mistake.
2006-09-25 23:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by spicey_1_2_know 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
No, ignorance begets ignorance. It bothers me more when people listen to someone who gives advice about abortion whether it is about parenting or any other issue.
2006-09-25 23:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by Peace 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's more annoying to me to see people judge other people based on mistakes they've made in their past. Doesn't make them a horrible person now. If we all judged each other based on our past, no one would talk to anyone.
"Let he who is without sin cast the first stone."
2006-09-25 23:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by Jen B 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, I'm annoyed by anyone who does not give a serious answer. And, someone promoting abortion can not have a serious answer to parenting since they are okay will killing babies. "Well, I did .... with one of my babies I did not kill and... it worked for me" HA. Like anyone would want advice from a baby killer.
2006-09-25 23:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by Serious Answers 3 · 0⤊ 6⤋
Yes. Abortion is the biggest sin ever to me. I am against it 1000% ! They do not deserve to be parents. They do not have any right to give advice to anyone else. They do not know how to be parents themselves.
2006-09-25 23:19:13 · answer #10 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 4⤊ 5⤋