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She barely tells me anymore things, she doesn't talk to me much anymore, I'm like her best cousin

2006-09-25 15:59:09 · 8 answers · asked by Katelynn 1 in Family & Relationships Family

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She probably found a friend or someone else to talk to...People grow apart sometimes...

2006-09-25 16:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0 0

She might be going through a busy time right now. Is she?

The best thing I think you can do is TALK TO HER ABOUT THIS! It's not complaining to tell her how you feel if you phrase it the right way. Some hints would be to phrase things around her instead of you. Instead of saying, "I feel very left out and I'm upset," you can try, "I feel as though you've been leaving me out--is everything okay? Has your schedule gotten much busier lately? Because you know that you can always talk to me about that, too." You can also try putting things into the future instead of the past, this will help you with sounding positive. Instead of, "This is bothering me, " you can try, "I really just want to let you know how I feel about this now so that we don't repeat this for the future." And remember, of all things, you have every right to feel how you do. Don't ever feel the need to justify your emotions because they're just something you have and feel and no one can tell you they're wrong. Good luck!

2006-09-25 23:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by dp 2 · 0 0

that happened with my cousin recently in the last year and a half it really comes down to two things for us one i got married and we didnt hang out as much and she found someone sopecial in her life and decided to share that with her significant other

2006-09-25 23:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by Petrina21 2 · 0 0

Hold her down and punch her in the face.

Duh...there is nothing you can do. People grow apart. More often than not. It's all part of growing up. The grown up world isn't always fair or good.

2006-09-25 23:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

when she tells you things do you tell others.maybe she lost your trust,or it could be something going on in her life thats deeper and she's ashamed or scared to talk about.let her know that she's your cousin and you luv her no matter what and you'll work it out together.

2006-09-25 23:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by nova44307 2 · 0 0

So you're cousins, so what? She doesn't want to tell you everything, so what? It's her life she gets to choose who she tells things to.

2006-09-26 01:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Have you been repeating things she told you?

2006-09-25 23:01:57 · answer #7 · answered by GreenHornet 5 · 0 0

...maybe you spilled the beans once, by accident....or she thinks you did...

....maybe she has just become a more mature and private person...

2006-09-25 23:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by Annamaria 3 · 0 0

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