I got pregnant at 17 by a 25 year old. It was unplanned of course. He lied and said that he was 18 years old. I also think he did it on purpose because like a week o 2 after we did u know what, he was saying stuff like your pregnant. I kept saying no and he was like well you'll see in 9 months. Don't get me wrong I'm don't feel bad because it's kinda my fault too because i could have just kept my legs closed. I believed him when he said that I would get pregnant. I was such a dummy. Please just tell me what you think. Thanks.
2006-09-25 15:57:12 · 8 answers · asked by Diamond 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Yea he is going to help me take care of the baby. I guess that was his way to have a making sure that i would be in his life forever. That was kinda cruel because now I have to put my college plans on hold. But I've started, Im currently a freshman in college now, just for the fall though.
2006-09-26 04:05:09 · update #1
How could he know that you were ovulating on the certain day that ya'll had sex? He couldnt have but he could have ejaculated inside you in hopes that you were ovulating. Did he want to get you pregnant? Is he going to be there for you and the baby? This guy sounds like bad news unless he is willing to take care of his responsibility and yes you should have used protection but whats done is done and dont beat yourself up over it! Just remember that the little baby growing inside of you is a MIRACLE and be grateful that God has chosen you to carry a child...some women cant.
2006-09-26 03:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is both partner's responsibility to use some method of contraception. This is why it is not a good idea to start having sex as a teen. Maybe deep down you really wanted to get pregnant because I find it hard to believe that most girls don't know about all the methods of preventing unplanned pregnancies with all the info that is out there.
2006-09-25 16:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by worldwise1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know right from wrong and you sound like you know that you made a mistake!! The best thing to do is to take care of your responsibility and make him do the same!! Be a woman and an adult about the situation!! Congratulations!!
Don't beat yourself about it because no one is perfect and don't let anyone try to put you down
2006-09-25 16:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by angellove 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe the minor law is 16 age of consent. If you can get married at 16 (al least here in canada with parental consent) I would imagine that its the same on sexual consent.
I would make sure you get all the suppport you need finacially from him.
2006-09-25 16:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by cowsfreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did it on purpose. Are you two still together? If yes, is he obsessive? He wanted you to have his child and he knew all he had to do was get you pregnant and you would have his child. Why would he lie about his age? He sounds like he's full of deceit?
2006-09-25 16:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you could get him in trouble, if you wanted, or your parents can, since your a minor... that was a very deceitfull thing . he lied to you and then ejaculated in you also. that's screwed up. hopefully, you will have a period and not have to worry about it. just try not to stress on it till your late, or it may not start. I'm sorry, i hope things turn out ok.
2006-09-25 16:03:31 · answer #6 · answered by jan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you sound like its a bad thing that he is 8 years older then you, my husband is 31 and im 23 .... 8yrs...... it takes two...so its just as much as your fault as his...
2006-09-25 16:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to your parents.
2006-09-25 16:11:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋