I know ive asked this once but i didnt get much of an answer. Ok i really like this girl and i think she likes me back. The only problem is i only see her for about 15 minutes before school and i pass her outside after school breifly. I would like to find a way to say hi to her, except we are both extreemly shy and im having trouble coming up with things that wouldnt make me look completely stupid and wouldnt make her feel totally uncomfortable. Any suggestions on what i should do?
2006-09-25 15:36:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't go for it, you'll never know. Whats the worse that can actually happen?
2006-09-25 15:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by beweird22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you think of anything the two of you have in common. do you like music. ice skating. ponds/lakes. or whatever you can think of in your area. now just take a risk and ask her a natural question. remember Bill Gates was a major nerd and look at him now. you can talk with others right - forget she's a girl and just talk with her as if she's just a friend. great romances generally start with friendships. good luck and don't be a guy, be a man if you don't fully understand the difference yet it's cool - then simply treat her with utmost respect ALWAYS!
2006-09-25 22:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by awf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should compliment something about her appearance -- or something she might have said or done at school. Does she participate in clubs or activities? Do you know someone who might know her?
Simply approaching her and saying "Hi" might be a good way to start. Try wishing her a good morning every morning, and if she responds, then you'll know you're on the right track.
Without being creepy about it, try to get to know her better... but start with a hello. That's the best way to handle this.
2006-09-25 22:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing ventured, nothing gained. If you want to talk to her, you are going to have to grow a backbone and make a move. How hard is it to walk up to someone and say, "Hi"? Ask her a question about school. What year is she? Does she go to the football games? Does she live near the school? Just do it. No big deal.
2006-09-25 22:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you pass her, have a bag of mixed lollies in your hand. Stop and offer her one. Start the conversation with which lollies do you like best and that should break the ice. Ask her what subjects she is taking this year. maybe then you can ask her if you can walk her to her class.
2006-09-25 22:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by auburn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, That sux... Well..You might consider talking to her about her interests and stuff, and since you're pressed for time, ask her to come over or meet you somewhere to do homework together. ( tell her yur having trouble in science, and need her to explain it to you...lol) That was, if she likes you, she will see that you are both sinsere and interested. Good luck! I wish ya the best!
2006-09-25 22:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by Cyber Spacer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would it be weird to be upfront about it? perhaps you can just say it like you did here. something like i notice we only get to talk for a few minutes before school. isn't it weird that we have so little time. from there you can see her reaction and maybe ask her to hang out for a while after school with you.
2006-09-25 22:40:58 · answer #7 · answered by ndyou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i would proably go to one of your best friends but if that doesnt work im here for u now u dont have to tell her u love her yet if u dont no her that much just say hi and make very very small talk try to be friends once your friends and i mean FRIENDS tell her that u like her i know its really hard I have a crush and i have been hidin it for years just try my advice
good luck
god of advice
2006-09-25 22:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by daphnerocksoutloud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, love is more important than school. Use your downtime in school to think of a conversation. Try to draw her attention into a conversation. Examine her persona, and tread carefully when filing her into a high school clique. Because if you screw that up, it's over.
2006-09-25 22:40:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her your phone number and email, and then talk a bit and find some time to meet. Make sure that it is really her, and not like in some movie when she loses the card and some creeps find it and stuff or whatever.
2006-09-25 22:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by rand a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well
jus say hi to her when u pass her every time
then make it a small convo
then build up from there
i know im shy
its tough, but ya gotta overcome ur shyness
2006-09-25 22:43:02 · answer #11 · answered by Nick723 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋