I know this guy who is interviewing Phillipino woman to be his wife, he wants a woman to clean, cook and serve him in bed. He said American women think it is a chore to do the housework, cook and clean, but a Phillipino knows that is a womans duty and glad to do it. I think it is slavery.
2006-09-25 15:33:37 · 12 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems rather shady. But if he finds what he's looking for and she's OK with it... then whatever.
2006-09-25 15:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am 1/2 flip, born in America. I was raised to keep a clean house and all of the above mentioned of what your friend is looking for in a wife. True, it sounds bad, but that is the Philippine way and he knows that.
If he does find what he is looking for, I hope he treats her with respect and kindness, because once you cross a PI woman, she WILL retaliate in the worst way!
2006-09-25 15:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by madamjenn40 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The spouse has the right to understand! dishonest is in no way authentic! Marriage is about 2 human beings being user-friendly to at least one yet another. definite, it truly is their project although the MISTRESS IS ALREADY in contact AND SO, that is anybody'S project. THE MISTRESS could get remote from THE HUSBAND. If she's wondering that that is none of her agency, then i imagine the mistress nonetheless must be with the husband. ***** please, save silent to guard the marriage through childrens? nicely THE relatives does no longer be at liberty both way because there is secrets and techniques. that is going to easily damage them contained in the lengthy run. contained in the destiny, they are going to get stumbled on out. the truth prevails. that is better effective to end it in the previous. P.S. that is better effective to have the spouse thanks for it yet nonetheless style of hate you and able to bypass on which includes your existence. there is many fishes contained in the sea. comprehend the fellow's heritage first in the previous being with him. The spouse may kill you too. also, you could visit reformatory for infidelity (relies upon the position you're).
2016-12-02 01:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's OK so long as he treats her like gold. If he just wants a slave it's very wrong and against US Law. They are raised to believe that they have to please there man. To honor and respect him. I think it goes both ways I hope he is not lazy and just wants someone to do it all for him. He should treat her like a queen if she does everything for him. Slavery, no it's just the way they are raised, if you were from there you would feel the same as them. The same goes for the Filipino women, if they were raised with your belief, they would think it's slavery too!
2006-09-25 15:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by tm 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A man can acquire whatever woman he desires that will give him what he wants because there is someone for everybody. Even this guy. Woman will do all kinds of things for the man they love. Depends on how well the man treats his woman and/or what that woman decides she wants to do or not do for that man. We all have choices that me make. To do or not to do. Works both ways.
What may be right for one, may be wrong for another. What may be wrong for one, may be right for another.
2006-09-25 15:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by 9knowledge 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i'd like to think that Filipino women are smarter than that, to fall for something so degrading and mean.
kindly tell this guy that you know of that it's easier to just hire a cleaning lady to do the housework for him. there are plenty of agencies to choose from where he can avail of such services. won't make any difference. the people there also know that it's their duty to do the housework since it's part of their job.
2006-09-25 15:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
this is a case of a spoiled men who's mommy is probably
6 feet under or kick him out of the house,i'm glad i never had
boy because i would of tough him how to respect woman
and to thing for himself, that's where it all started,you think?
isabelle
2006-09-25 15:52:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
well I have a phillipino friend here, there customs are different, and yes they tailor to their family, to them it is life, same as home, so no slavery is not even a question here!
2006-09-25 15:36:24 · answer #8 · answered by helper 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Heck, as long as he dont yell at her or hit her she'll be fine. Once she has acuired the american lifestyle she'll be all, "Suck your what?...Suck it yourself. And another thing... blah...blah..blah..yada..yada..yada in your own @ss." Just give her a few years.
2006-09-25 15:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is slavery! He should be ashamed of himself.
2006-09-25 15:38:39 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋