well i am a freshman in H.S and i got a bf but he's messing with some other so he doesnt matter anymore but i like a senior and i think he likes me back we've been eyeing eachother since the first day of school flirting and smiling to each other but everyone is saying im too young for him should i go talk to him or am i too young??? ps does it help that he's even a little shorter than me and im 5'4'' =]]
2006-09-25 15:29:42 · 17 answers · asked by DTP 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey i say go talk to him, there is no harm in getting to know him, and after that you can decide if it is something you want to pursue. If there is a definite connection and he isn't a complete jerk (trust me most of them are) go for it but you might want to consul with the parentals before any relationship develops (have him meet them). Oh and just a heads up don't do anything with him unless there is a sincere commitment, my friend was in a situation like that and got screwed over by him because you just wanted someone to hook up with. So choose wisely, you can never be too careful..even the biggest jerks appear nice when you first meet...
2006-09-25 15:35:44 · answer #1 · answered by when_ur_a_jet7891 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should remember that since he is a senior that he will be 18, and you will be 15 or 16 which means that when he graduates and goes to college that he will be around girls that are 18 and older, mostly 20's. You are to young, a two year difference is usually the best when in high school and college, that way you don't get left behind because your to young. And what difference does height make in a relationship?
2006-09-25 22:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by KO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me personally, I don't think your too young. Because he's only 3 years older than you, hopefully, if no one was left behind a year or anything. One of my friends parents are like 10-15 years apart. And one of my moms friend is like 7 years older than her husband. It will just be lonesome when he goes off to college and you'll still be in high school and he'll feel kinda old when it's time to go to your Junior or Senior Prom. HOPE THIS HELPED!
2006-09-25 22:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by Betty Crocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. I was a freshman (age 14) and my boyfriend at the time was a senior (age 17). We are 34 and 37 now.....been married for 6 years. It all depends on your level of maturity.
2006-09-25 22:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by Faith In The House 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are to young. You may not think so but believe me you are. Think of it this way. At the end of the year he is going to be out of school. Hopefully he gets a job and is stable... where are you? Living with mommy and daddy ( or one or the other) and going to school. What is he going to see in you then? It wont be what a great conversation you allways provide.
2006-09-25 22:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by Parisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not to young, as long as he respects you and does not force an issue with you. Dating people of different ages can be great fun, a different point of view and outlook on life. He you both like and respect each other. Do not bother yourself with hear say, you make your own mind, they can not live you life, only you can, do what makes you happy and then you will be.
2006-09-25 22:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by Johnny L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO everything you can to be level headed and be sure his motives are pure, don't sell yourself cheap, and hell yeah its better to go and see what up then to never go and see and wonder forever what if you had. So go ahead just be sure not to allow yourself to be taken advantage of. Thats the only anyone would say that you are to young, for your own safety.
2006-09-25 22:33:31 · answer #7 · answered by theblessedknower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is not too young for you if you are within a couple of years of age. After you are in your late twentys you have a larger range and in your thirties you have even a larger range and so on.
2006-09-25 22:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cute little lady bug, take your friends advice. control those fresh lady flashes. You have just entered puberty and your mind is going wacko! Anything that wears pants will turn you on if any attention is sent your way.
So keep your legs crossed to control the juices and hormones.
Grandpa
2006-09-25 22:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah go for it am 14 and my gf is 10 and am short and shes only a little shorter than me
2006-09-25 22:31:47 · answer #10 · answered by Fantasy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋