Ok, this guy at work flirt with me a lot,he knows iam gay,but he seduced me and culdn't help but to fall in love with him,When i told him, about my feelings,he said, he is straight,and i dream too much,But when he see me talking to another guy,I can see his anger and shake his head in disapprovment.I tried to get away from him(no talking.no looking,etc...)But he tried hard for me to talk to him again, I am so confused.Help.please.Sorry about my english.
2006-09-25 15:12:04 · 12 answers · asked by Ali. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would like to think that he is sort of in denial about his true feelings, based on your information. But since he said he is straight. Be comfortable with that, which means he does not want to have a relationship with you. Honestly speaking, why not try to focus your mind on healthful thoughts about yourself. You are a wonderful creation of God, you are wonderfully and fearfully made. You are designed to be a man as what you can see in your physical body. Learn to accept who you are and accept the things which you can not change,
2006-09-25 15:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed of you or he's criticizing you. Sometimes 2. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl. False 3. Guys don't like it when a girl touches his hair. Sometimes 4. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite. Sometimes 5. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears. Sometimes 6. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes. True 7. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice. True 8. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts. Sometimes 9. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her. True 10. Guys rather a girl in shorts and a hoodie with not that much make-up on than a girl who dresses up all the time and wears alot of make-up... Sometimes 11. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands. 12. Guys hate flirts. Sometimes 13. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about. True 14. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile. True 15. Boys would like it if YOU sent THEM flowers. Sometimes 16. Boys DO insult you if they like you. True 17. Most guys want YOU to make the FIRST move. Sometimes 18. Most guys think its cute when girls say the wrong thing. Sometimes 19. You don't always have to apologize to a guy when you did something wrong. Sometimes 20. Guys want to know if the girl is ready for a kiss or not, so he tends to ask if he could kiss her. False
2016-03-27 09:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Up front I am against gay relationships - but even so, I will answer your question as if you were female....
A woman in your position would be a user, loser and creep to inject herself into a married man's life. Maybe you are reading too much into this man's intentions. Maybe he is being nice after all SOMETIMES there is a fine line between being nice and flirting. Understand?
Even though I myself do disapprove of the gay lifestyle I try to treat them human and as decent as possible. One gay person MISUNDERSTOOD big time my intentions and tried to come onto me. Having set the record straight with this guy, he accused me of teasing him..... and that is simply not even a remote possibility, not in this life or the next.
My advice to you is to leave the guy alone - do whatever you do and let it be. Anyone who injects themselves into a married person's life sexually or romantically is not only asking for trouble but causing trouble for the person's mate and any children involved and THAT is almost criminal to destroy or take part in destroying a family.
2006-09-25 15:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by Victor ious 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy is married, u need to leave him alone!
Any event, he is just playing you. Either avoid him or get another job!
By the way, r u a girl or a guy? It doesn't really matter---he is toying with you and you need to stay away from him.
2006-09-25 15:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by kay w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing mind games with you sweetheart. Do whatever you have to stay away from this guy. He will only cause you problems in the future. Just tell him that you have no interest in speaking to him unless it pertains to work. Idle chit chat is off limits....focus your energy on something or someone else.
2006-09-25 15:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay away from him, except in relation to work. He may be playing with you and enjoying the attention... Even if he is gay, he's probably not willing to admit it to himself and certainly not his wife. You need to find someone who is as comfortable in thier sexuality as you are. He sounds like a predator to me and you don't need the games.
2006-09-25 15:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by soulgirl76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to avoid this guy. He is obviously messing with your head. You don't deserve to be treated this way. Just ignore him at all costs. Stay away from him.
2006-09-25 15:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sarrah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to talk to him ask him to just leave you alone. Tell him your with someone right now, and you will keep him on your waitinh list.
2006-09-25 15:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jump his bones. All of them.
2006-09-25 15:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by rere 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Could you be Bi? And not know?
2006-09-25 15:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by seeramey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋