She emails me telling me about events, harasses me, sends invites me to a food tasting parties, sends me matchmaking emails to mock me, then she french kisses another guy in front of me! When we dated she would talk to other men in front of me, and totally disrespect me. I have yelled at her and told her off too....but she keeps emailing me. Its been 6 months so why is she bothering to contact me and invite me to parties? Why does she care to see me?
I cared a lot about her and she strings me along for 6 months after the breakup. I dont get it. I have moved on....but she gets in the way. Who does she think she is? I have been nice to her and she has been a b*tch to me. I will confront her and put my hand around her neck and tell her to back off if she doesnt quit playing childish games with me. She is 32 and acts like a 16 yr old! Why doesnt she grow up and move on?
2006-09-25 15:07:36 · 15 answers · asked by usa_jcrew68 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like she just gets off on making you angry. Try not to let it get to ya. Tell her you feel sorry for her. She's too old to be acting like that! Block her email, screen your calls. After she can't get you riled up anymore, she'll find someone else to torture. She sounds really pathetic. Do you want me to smack her for you?
2006-09-25 15:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by tigerlily27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer the phone when she calls and erase all of her stupid messages. She likes playing with you and your feelings, she always has. She's lucky I'm not a good female friend of yours. I would pretend to be your woman (not to be conceited but I have been told a number of times that I am so pretty in the face and have a sexy body) and we would take her up on her invitation and we would show her that you are fine and happy without her, and then I would call that hooker out and tell her to leave you alone. She would not want to mess with me. I'm not afraid to be a fool for my man. Plus, I would tell her and everybody all the secrets you told me about how lame she was in bed, and how she had a bad odor sometimes that Massengill could not clear up. I'm sorry she's putting you through so much, but make sure you are not encouraging her. Show her with your actions that you have truly moved on.
2006-09-25 15:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off.....don't get physical with her....it will mean she's won...she is playing silly games with you and she is waiting for you to react because she is a sad little cretin...the best thing...annoying as it is....get yourself a new email address and a new SIM card if need be....if you want shut of her you have to make some changes...dont look at the old email any more, and only give the ad to people yo uknow and trust...and not anyone who knows her....she sounds to me like a right little skank....don't let her bother you....she's nuts...she has no respect for you...and she is a spiteful evil minded b*tch....she has a problem...i mean afer 6 months and she is still acting like a kid...just tell her straight that if she dont quit then you will do something about it....but don't hit her, let someone else do it...... she's a nasty piece of work....i dispise people like that...they must be very bitter and twisted
2006-09-25 15:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone tell you it's because she still likes you. That's honestly a myth in most cases.
She wants to rub it in your face for whatever reason. So what do you do?
DON'T GIVE THAT ***** THE SATISFACTION!
Starve her. She feeds on your humilation. When she frenches some guy that's 10 times more handsome. Smile. IT will kill her.
Even if you have to fake it. Smile your sweetest smile.
After a while she'll get over it and leave.
2006-09-25 15:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like the same kind of pig I got rid of a few months ago.
Don't let her pull this crap on you. If she's doing this garbage via email, then have her email bounced back to her so you don't even get it. Let her spread her poison elsewhere. I have it fixed so all her email is bounced back to her, and also forwarded automatically to a friend who will read it and then communicate any valid info to me.
I have the same arrangement with any voicemails she might send.
Do it, you don't need this kind of shinola man. She's a pig, and she doesn't deserve the time of day.
If you want any help with setting this stuff up, email me and let me know. I will do my best to help you do what I've done. You have to anti-bit(h yourself.....lol.
She's petty, immature and just a plain old fashioned @$$hol3....just like the one I got rid of. They are probably sisters.
2006-09-25 15:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is 32?!?!??!?!?!?!?!?!
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well, see , that is what i like to call denial.
theres this old saying that goes "how bold one gets when one is sure of being loved" ...this is her problem . shes trying to make herself feel hot, sexy, flirtatious and WANTED by making you jealous and seeing the effect. stop paying attention. in fact, dont even tell her you got the emails. just be completely ignorant. she'll get confused and shell **** off. trust me.
do not give her the time of day. thats what keeps her going. believe me,. its the funnest thing to make a guy jealous.
2006-09-25 15:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by suchacliche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem like a good guy, so ignore her. maybe she's regretting that she let you go and she's trying to make you jealous, like when girls are mean because they like you, only this girl is a bit crazy. anyways, don't commit murder, she doesn't seem worth it. blow her off, and when you find someone else, make sure you tell your EX that you have moved on, and she should too.
2006-09-25 15:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by starrynite4111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im having the same subject now dude, i understand the confusion ingredient yet it is what you will desire to do...overlook approximately her, for sure she doesnt provide a rattling approximately you or your emotions so shes not worth it, heres what you will desire to try this night...get all spiffied up, get a buddy or 2, and bypass out and characteristic some exciting and doubtless %. up a woman *winks* have faith me you will experience better and if she calls you lower back purely postpone
2016-12-18 16:57:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is childish and obviously has no self-esteem, Hurting you must make her feel good or somthing. Block her e-mails, or don't open them; Forget her and find someone who doesn't play games and make you happy!
2006-09-25 15:12:29 · answer #9 · answered by kat&izzycat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a restraining order
she wishes she could have u bak, she wants to b wanted, but u have moved on. she is a s*ut, and nos it. ur probably the best thing she ever had, and cant get over the fact that ur not dying w/o her.
2006-09-25 15:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋