My co-workers have told me that there's this divorced woman (early 40's, but looks YOUNGER), at the office, who seems to find me attractive. This statement has also been claimed by the woman's closest female friend.
The problem is: She's OLDER than I am, but looks good.
However, when I see her, she acts like she there's nothing going on and greets me as if she HAD to. Her closest female friend, though, ALWAYS teases her while I am nearby.
I am very curious whether this all is true or not or whether this could be part of just a joke. How can I find out?
What do you think???
2006-09-25 14:54:51 · 15 answers · asked by R. H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When she greets you like she is suppose to that's her being mature about it that is what she is suppose to do.
As for her being older so what.
Ashton and Demi
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I say go for it. It does not mean you guys are going to get married or something it just means you guys can have some really good fun right now.
Also I heard when women are in there 40's they are at their prime when it comes to sex. So enjoy yourself.
2006-09-25 15:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to side with those that have no qualms with it. But also with those that said you have to be in a loving relationship: Not there just for the sex. My lady and I have happily been together 5 years now and our age difference is greater than any mentioned in this post. We are lovers, best friends and soul mates. Yes, we have some differences, but what relationship doesn't? We do things together and we each have things we do alone or with similar age friends. But age, especially 'old age', is a state of mind. I know people my age that have decided they are now old and that's how they live their lives. They'll die soon, I suspect. I have other friends that think as I do that lead very active lives. They range from age 75 to 98. The 75 y/o man crosses the U.S. at least 6 times a year on his motorcycle. He also rides to all four corners of the country every year. The 98 y/o also still rides. Google Ardys Kellerman for another free spirit. Don't let age difference be a big issue. Sure, there will always be someone that will look down on you, but that's their problem. Be happy. Enjoy life. It may be a one-time thing so don't let it go to waste: Be with the one you love and who loves you.
2016-03-27 09:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure is a good time for the gals. They are so sexy at that time of life. I was quite young and delivered some items to a woman and was about two hours before I got to leave the house and I kept returning for more. She sure taught me a lot and i sure enjoyed it. No there was nothing called love attached to it. Sex just for the sake of sex. The only way to go. Get in there and you will soon want to stay.
I was 18 and she was 42 Nice looking and one hot gal. No I was not the only one that visited that house... After about six months it was over and I sure missed her for a while. I just thought, If I had been a female and a male did that to me I most likely would have claimed rape.
2006-09-25 15:20:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, why would you want to date someone that much older than you? Second, it could be a joke, however I do doubt that scenario. Unfortunately a lot of older unattached women find younger attached or unattached men attractive. Sometimes it's because the older woman wants to feel like she's young, so she goes after the younger men. Other times it's that she just can't accept that she's older. sometimes it's completely different reasons. It all depends on the type of woman she is. Good luck!
2006-09-25 15:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by Goddess Princess Minky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I am an older man and have been in your place. The woman does like you but don't really want anyone to know about it. I am here to tell you that you do not want to get involved in the long haul. You are young and still need to do you thing for a few more years. If you hooked up you would be setting at home watching tv on weekends because 40 year olds are settled in life and you are not.
What is going on is you need to ask her out for a drink at apple bees for a chat after work.. See if you really get along. I would think she would like to just have sex with you and it not be bragged about to everyone she knows. She is at the age where respect is more importune then anything else in life.
I say ask her out but don't let anyone else know. Get laid and be happy it happened and enjoy your self. Shut your mouth and don't disrespect her. You could get lucky and be her sex slave for a few months but I would not expect anything more.
2006-09-25 15:03:05 · answer #5 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... women and men are alike in many ways and different in the right ways... They both like to now they still have it.... she doesn't think of herself as old and still finds younger men very attractive...
Just play it straight... ask her out to coffee... and talk and talk and talk..... she will give you all the info you need to know if her interest is real.... And if she agrees to go out for coffee with you, I'd say there is a good chance she's interested...
Were you decide to go with it...is then up to you....
2006-09-25 15:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman in the 40's wants a young guy in 20's very commonly for their strength. If you get what I mean ;)
2006-09-25 14:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by shafique_khan83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well an older woman sees a younger version of herself and maybe she lacks the invigurating experiences of youth, sure she looks good, and you know what age is just a number who cares how old ...... i think that this 40's something woman is just interested in you to revive her youthful past, if you are attracted to her then what is the harm in taking her to coffee or something and see where it goes.
best of luck to you
cheers
2006-09-25 14:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not joke..thats what women do when they like a man...they dont want 2 be making a fool out of...especially a women thats older then you feels more vulnerable with her feelings...she's just gonna wait and see if you;ll feel the same as her...if you want her then make your move cuz she's gonna take awhile...but i assure you she wont turn you down cuz obviously she feels attracted 2 you...oh ya and she wants you to like her cuz she wants 2 feel beautiful and younger again
2006-09-25 14:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by luv muh baby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her outside of work (for the sexual harrasment protection). If she does, then go with it. You've got nothing to lose.
P.S. Didn't you say she was hot, GO FOR IT!
2006-09-25 15:00:11 · answer #10 · answered by the one who knows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋