2006-09-25 14:44:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Sounds to me thats its an anxiety disorder. If so he cant just snap out of it. He needs to see a doctor.
2006-09-25 14:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by shirley e 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is too broad a question
what is he worrying about
his job
his appearance - self esteem
no girl friends
abuse
be there as a positive support
but you will be doing him no favors if you continually allow him to lean on you
tell him do something
see a self help group
group he can attend
get some interests
basis for his worrying
don't let him call you all the time about his concerns
if it gets bad - tell him that you will call him twice a week at a certain time or he can call you twice a week at a certain time
- inother words - limit him asking you for help all the time.
2006-09-25 21:54:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can point out to him the logical fact that worry does not solve the issues. ACTION solves the issues. Problem solving, proper planning, prior preparation prevents p*ss poor performance
Worrying can be useful at the beginning of problem solving. If you don't have imagination and don't worry about things, perhaps you would not plan contingencies for if they go wrong.
Just don't spend ALL your time worrying. Get up and fix it, if you are worried about it.
2006-09-25 21:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isnt normal to worry alot. It sounds like anxiety or depression. Id tell him to talk to a doc about it. He'll feel alot better if he tries something and can get on something that works for him.
Worrying all the time is hard on your body. It is a form of stress and stress kills. It will age him too.
2006-09-25 21:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, you cannot tell someone who is anxious to "snap out of it". This is so not going to work.
Maybe you can be more productive by talking with them. Act like you're not anxious for them. Even when you are upset for them you really don't need to show them. Talk to them calmly.
If this continues they may need to see a therapist.
2006-09-25 21:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by Shesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant, plain and simple. You can stand by him and re-assure him when he is feeling that way but really, he is the only one that can do the work. Suggest to him that he get some professional help. He has to want the help though. Till then, just be his friend is all.
2006-09-25 21:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by Lucky Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could well be his nature to worry.
If that is the case there's no use you worrying about it.
If his health starts to suffer from the stress he may need to speak to his GP.
At the very least he is lucky to have caring friends.
2006-09-25 21:52:48 · answer #7 · answered by Yellowstonedogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The opposite of fear is faith.You have to convince him to have faith that whatever it is will work itself out.
2006-09-25 21:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by metcalfmaintenance1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to grab his balls and start acting like a MAN!
2006-09-25 21:46:27 · answer #9 · answered by im just me.. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"My you have a BIG C@#K!"
2006-09-25 21:48:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋