do u believe that wutevr is meant to be will alwayz find its way?
2006-09-25 14:40:10 · 21 answers · asked by miss nahera 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi- it depends on how long you were in a relationship, and when your. heart, mind, body, soul. and your really in love, i think it's like a grieving period. it takes time. and if you really let it go. and it returns for you. yes- sometimes. people really need space, to get themselves to gather, it may not have been anything you done. it may be something, there going through. they don't want to talk about. so they distance themselves, but if it was mean't to be they'll be back.
2006-09-25 14:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe that. I also can tell you that 23 years ago I broke up with a boyfriend who I loved dearly but cheated on me. I met someone else two weeks later and moved to another state with him. We were married for 20 years and every day I thought about the other man. I imagined what it would be like married to him, what our children would look and be like, how he looked, how he changed and stopped cheating on me, how we lived this romantic fantastic life. I thought I was still madly deeply in love with him. Then I divorced and moved back to my home state and town. My first job just happened to be at the same place he now worked. The first time I saw him I didnt even recognize him. He was bald, heavy and a big loser. I got the best laugh out of that. Within a couple of weeks he was calling my office and leaving me gifts. What a piece of crap, he was married. I finally quit my job just to get away from him. I think sometimes you never get over someone, and sometimes you do. I know I am over him now! But yes, whatever is meant to be, will be.
2006-09-25 14:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by tarahump 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first question:
Many psychiatrists believe that you take the time you were together and multiply by .5 So if you were together for 3 years, then it will take 1.5 years for you to be completely "over him." I've had really long term relationships, and I think that formula is a little heavy, but not much. It takes a LONG time to let go.
second question:
Forrest Gump logic - "...I don't know if we're a leaf in the wind (fate) or if we control everything, but I think it's both happening at the same time."
Amen to brother Gump.
2006-09-25 14:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly can't tell you how long it should take to get over someone cuz I am still trying to get over someone after 4 months and the worst part is, we were never together..I just liked him..I like him alot!! And he knows I like him..but I do believe that God has a plan for me, as he does for you, and whoever is out there for us will find us..hopefully soon, but if not we'll appreciate them more.. good luck!!
2006-09-25 14:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by confusedgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if you try as hard as you can and you don't get something, it wasn't meant to be. If it is meant to be, things may happen without you even thinking too much about them. It takes as long as it takes. Don't push yourself, cry as much as you need and only go dating again when you feel that you are ready for it and you don't compare each guy to your ex.
Good luck!
2006-09-25 14:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by doctryluv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone once said the for every 5-years of a marriage, that it takes about 1 to 1.5 years to get over someone.
2006-09-25 14:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, whatever is meant to be will always find a way.......it took me a year to "get over" someone......the longest its taken is.....I don't know yet, there's still parts of me that haven't "gotten over" someone that was a part of my life for so many years (off & on)- he will always hold a piece of my heart....he's gone to be with the Lord now, he passed away a little over a year ago......I guess I'm trying to say:If you really loved someone, you'll never completely "get over" them, there will always be a piece of your heart that they hold.....
2006-09-25 14:44:29 · answer #7 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no magic number to quantify an appropriate time. different people heal at different paces. you have to let GOD steer the way and step out of your own. pray for him to guide you in the proper direction. trust that He always has your better good in mind, even if you do not agree with it at the current moment.
He will answer your prayer and show you in some, way, shape or form.
2006-09-25 14:45:23 · answer #8 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes and your prince charming will someday come and you will live in a 4 bedroom house with a white picket fence and have 2.5 kids and a dog and cat that love each other..keep dreaming
2006-09-25 14:42:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first question; the answer for that is anything between 1 second and 1 life time.
Your second question; the answer is "what was, still is and will remain"
2006-09-25 14:42:54 · answer #10 · answered by shafique_khan83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋