What do guys think of a girl who has sex with them on the 2nd date? If you both are very attracted to eachother and there is alot of chemisty, should the girl still make him wait? If so how long is long enough.
2006-09-25 14:37:10 · 14 answers · asked by deepadot 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say it doesnt matter you know I fu-cked my wife the first day we meet and we are married that shouldnt give him an excuse to repse3ct you any less if he does he is an *** any way. So if you sleep with him and he is just looking for *** then he is looking for ***.
2006-09-25 14:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by business creature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is very personal. Why should you care for what guys in here might say or think? Follow your heart and do what is best for yourself. The right thing to do is to wait, but not always we can wait. I've been there. There are times we just can't wait, when the attraction is too much. If this is the case, and if you already did it, why to regret now? Go for your heart, that's my best advice for you. If it does not work with this one guy, that's fine. It is not going to bed with them that pushes them away from us later on, it is the way you behave as a human being, if you are a person of character, a honest human being that makes someone to fall in love with you and to stay with you. Not because you had sex with him.
2006-09-25 21:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.Cook 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are compatible, I'd say there's nothing wrong with sex on the second date. But I think you should both be clear about what type of a relationship you want and definitely use protection. Two dates definitely isn't enough to fully trust someone.
2006-09-25 21:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by Subconsciousless 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problem at all as long as you are both OK with it. Why delay the inevitable? Why delay the pleasure? Sure, it's too early to know enough about each other, but having sex will reveal a lot more about each other than going slow and steady.
2006-09-25 21:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by dominoeffect1984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, the sooner you give it up, the faster a guys gonna move on and mark you off his calendar. Make em wait until YOU feel like giving it up. if you want them as a boyfriend, make em wait a month or two.
2006-09-25 21:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you babe? When you get to be an old man of 27 like me, waiting till the second date can be an accomplishment sometimes. lol
2006-09-25 21:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOMETIMES WAITING TILL THE SECOND DATE IS TOO LONG DEPENDS ON THE CHEMISTRY BETWEEN THE TWO OF YOU IF IT,S RIGHT GO FOR IT IF YOU AREN,T SURE WAIT UNTILL U ARE THAT MIGHT EVEN BE ON THE NEXT DATE !
2006-09-25 21:43:22 · answer #7 · answered by cranky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say
the earlier the better
then u take the relationship to the next step
and ur moving foreward
2006-09-25 21:39:06 · answer #8 · answered by Nick723 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till you know hes the one
2006-09-25 21:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by RAILMAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, make him wait til he says I DO.
2006-09-25 21:40:26 · answer #10 · answered by Andrew B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋